Posted by:
wifemormonimnot
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Date: October 10, 2010 03:53PM
Hi, I'm a nevermo. My wife is a TBM. Long story, but short version is yes, we've had a lot of friction over the years (married now 19 years).
What has me currently worried is our oldest child (just turned 15). He recently had his ordination to be a "teacher". He loves the youth group at LDS; doesn't really like to go to same at my church. I think it's mainly because the LDS youth is a larger group and as such "more fun" for him, than at my church.
But this morning, I asked him if he wanted to go to my church with his sister and I (my wife is out of town this weekend), but he said "No, not really." then made some excuse about his back hurting.
To you exmormons out there: Am I being overly worried?
I'm not trying to compete with my wife's church. I have just wanted our kids to see that there are other views out there. It bothers me that they are constantly told that LDS is the "true church". Of course, my biggest fear is that some day I'll be the only non-mormon (we have 3 kids) in this family and as such will feel alienated by my own family.
I've done a lot of reading (and praying) over the past 6-8 weeks, including "A friendly Discussion. Mormonism - Pro and Con" by Ed Bliss. I had never realized there were so many facts out there that argue against the very foundation of the LDS church.
I had a talk with my son a couple of weeks ago; we covered why I've never believed LDS is the "true church" and some of the facts in the book I mentioned. I'm not really sure how he took it. At first he kind of responded like "Oh really?", then he sort of stopped and seemed to put up a guard (Maybe he's already been counseled on viewing anything anti-mormon as coming from satan).
It's been a rough few weeks on me, because of the above. Maybe I'm just over interpreting things.
I think I need to talk more with him, and I promised him I would. I did about a week ago (similar talk as above), but I sensed that he really didn't want to talk about it anymore.
Is it too late? Is he at the point of no return? Any advice?