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Date: July 24, 2011 02:51PM
I promise I am not being a perv (I quit the church and have never had sex with a virgin so I have no idea) but I am absolutely intrigued by what TBM's experience on their wedding night, especially if they are both virgins.
Did you both enjoy it?
Did you know what you were doing?
Was there foreplay?
Did you both Organsm?
Did things "fit" properly?
Did you feel guilty or or did you try to refrain from certain "sinful" acts or thoughts?
Did the church somehow effect your lovemaking in some way?
Was it what you expected? Better, worse?
Were you or your spouse just completely clueless as to what do or did it just come naturally?
Did you do anything cheesy like say a prayer beforehand?
Was there anything surprising that happened?
I'll be open about my first time. First of all I couldn't get it up, cause I was so damn nervous and she said, "oh I don't think you are ready." It just killed my self esteem. The second time I finally did, but the stupid condom was too small. When we finally did do the deed it wasn't as difficult as I thought it would be (maybe I'm just a natural) but it took several attempts before I could orgasm (yes, I am a dude AND straight). I think I was actually good at foreplay too, probably because I spent so much time as a TBM making out that I didn't just go straight for the kill, when I did have sex.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 07/24/2011 04:45PM by Susan I/S.