Posted by:
forestpal
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Date: April 07, 2012 12:03PM
Welcome to RFM! I went through what you are going through--most of here did.
I still believe in God and Christ--but not the Joseph Smith interpretation. For example, I believe God loves us unconditionally. I don't believe that God once was a Mormon man, or that my bishop or stake president or Mitt Romney will become a God someday. Well, you know that there is a lot of bunk that the cult teaches. When you erase all those lies from your brain, you will find God. After that, it is truly up to you to accept Him, or not.
The Mormon cult does not own God! I feel sad that so many ex-Mormons lose God, when they leave Mormonism. When I walked out of a Mormon church for the last time, I said, "God is not here. He never was here." I firmly believe that Mormonism has nothing to do with God.
You still pray, because God is still in your heart. I think that there are as many versions of God as there are people. We all see and feel Him a little differently. There is no "one true church."
I have gone to many different Christian churches, and have been uplifted by the sermons about Christ and God. I still like The Bible. My children went to a Lutheran grade school, so they grew up knowing Christ from the Bible. Mormonism was always in conflict with those teachings. We love nature and science, and we feel very little conflict between science and religion. In fact, studying science will lead you to God. Please give Christianity a chance!
You really don't have to label yourself--that is a Mormon thing. Don't jump into another cult situation.
Mormonism claims credit for things that have nothing to do with it, such as your marriage, family, nice children, your whole life. I think you are a great person IN SPITE OF the Mormon church, not because of it. You would have been a great Catholic, Protestant, Buddhist, or Atheist, too. Children turn out well because of their parents, education, neighborhood, physical health, relatives, etc. They don't need to be harassed by unqualified "authority" figures. They don't need to be weighed down with guilt, and endless busywork. For example, let them spend two more years in school, instead of on a pointless mission. My children were active, along with me and my husband, in their schools and community, sports, 4-H, Scouts, family outings, reunions, etc. We were all much happier and more cohesive after we left Mormonism. My children turned out great! Mormonism seems to separate children from their parents. Well, don't get me started on why I think Mormonism is NOT good for children.
Down the road, years after leaving, I can testify to you that if you stand by your integrity, your family will respect you more, and your children will develop the same integrity. You can give them the love that the Mormon church can never give them. You are a far more powerful example to them than any made-up fake religion could ever hope to be. Love and luck to you all. >^..^<