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Posted by: nomoinprovo ( )
Date: April 23, 2012 03:48PM

I was reading ambivalentmo's story about sending in the resignation number, and the form that was shown has "my membership number is."

I had no idea you folks were numbered! Somehow that's more shocking than the odd beliefs. Back when I was a recognized member of the Methodist Church, I don't think I was ever more than FirstName LastName of the Methodist Church in MyTown.

That's weirdly creeply.

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Posted by: jan ( )
Date: April 23, 2012 04:21PM


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Posted by: Xyandro ( )
Date: April 23, 2012 04:26PM

As a computer person, I can attest that every time you're in a computer, you have a number. Whether the organization ever lets you see it is the only question.

It's not creepy, it's just the way computers work.

(I'm not defending the church in general, but I disagree with this particular point.)

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Posted by: runtu ( )
Date: April 23, 2012 04:35PM

I don't think it's particularly creepy, any more than a driver's license number or my membership number for the Society for Technical Communication. Putting the number in just makes sure the right person's records are removed.

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Posted by: GNPE ( )
Date: April 23, 2012 04:41PM

Next: tattoo your membership number on your (xxx).

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Posted by: tillamook ( )
Date: April 23, 2012 04:44PM

I don't really find it creepy. It is a database.

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Posted by: fossilman ( )
Date: April 30, 2012 12:08PM

Yes, the fact that they have a database and the type of information that they keep in it is creepy. The number, not so much.

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Posted by: presbyterian ( )
Date: April 23, 2012 04:47PM

We don't have membership numbers, but if we pledge, meaning we promise to give a set amount to the church, we get pledge envelopes, and we have a pledge envelope number. The money we give to the church is anonymous unless you happen to know everyone's pledge envelope number (you'd be surprised!).

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Posted by: presbyterian ( )
Date: April 28, 2012 07:07PM

The program is Powerchurch. It is nice to get a year end statement for tax purposes. We can now pledge online. I have a monthly automatic payment from my credit card. I feel a little funny when the plate goes by, though.

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Posted by: RPackham ( )
Date: April 28, 2012 07:57PM

presbyterian Wrote:
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> We can now pledge online. I have a monthly automatic payment
> from my credit card. I feel a little funny when the plate goes by, though.

I recently attended Sunday worship services for three weeks at our local Methodist church (Don't ask why!). In each pew were blank offering envelopes in which you could put the offering. But they also had printed cards saying "I give electronically" so that you can put something in the plate and not be embarrassed.

Maybe you could bring an envelope with you containing a note saying something like "My offering of $xxx has been transferred electronically" and you will have something to drop in the plate.



Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 04/28/2012 07:58PM by RPackham.

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Posted by: baura ( )
Date: April 28, 2012 08:14PM

I always have a blank envelope to drop in the plate to cover the fact that I'm copping a few dollars out of it by sleight of hand.

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Posted by: presbyterian ( )
Date: April 30, 2012 12:00PM

That would certainly work at my church where teenagers pass the plate. They are oblivious! How about accidentally tipping the plate over and "helping" pick up all the cash?

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Posted by: presbyterian ( )
Date: April 30, 2012 12:04PM

Speaking of records, we have filing cabinets filled with minutes of meetings of our administrative boards, the Session and Board of Deacons, going back to the 1950's. We even have a copy of every church bulletin! It seems silly to me, but look at old European churches that have records that go back 1,000 years.

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Posted by: anagrammy ( )
Date: April 30, 2012 12:47PM

How telling is that?


Ana

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Posted by: honestone ( )
Date: April 28, 2012 08:22PM

That is right...no numbers at my Methodist church and I think it is weird Mormons have a number. Does that mean they look at your number to enter the temple too? We do have a number on our pledge envelope but that would be expected...attach the amt. to a number instead of looking at anyone's name. In our church NAME is not important.....give what you can and you are not guilted to give more. Some people only give up to $99.00 in a yr. and others give $15,000.00 in a yr. Who cares?

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Posted by: nomoinprovo ( )
Date: April 23, 2012 04:49PM

For that matter, why are there records? Why are they keeping track of individuals?

My mother was treasurer of our little Methodist Church. Every Sunday she gathered up what was in the offering plates, then went home and counted it up. She entered the total in the ledger, and that was it. Some members of the congregation had little offering envelopes that they'd sign, but Mother never kept track of who gave what. She just opened the envelopes, pulled out the money and put it in the pile, and threw out the envelopes. If she read the names, it was for her own curiosity.

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Posted by: SoCalNevermo ( )
Date: April 23, 2012 07:49PM

Nowadays, some Methodists expect year-end statements showing their giving (so they can report that plus 25% on their taxes). Most Methodist churches now use a database program (can't remember its name) published by the national association to keep track of members, their attendance, giving, and any other information the local church wants to include. AS far as I know, the information is only kept locally and not shared with region or national.

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Posted by: jpt ( )
Date: April 23, 2012 07:40PM

genealogy and saving dead people has a lot to do with their focus on record keeping. Of course, connected to that is keeping/retrieving live ones as tithe payers.

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Posted by: SusieQ#1 ( )
Date: April 30, 2012 12:26PM

That was added some years ago. It has info for the computer use.
That number is necessary to order garments on line, for instance.
Nothing nefarious about it. It's a necessary part of the computer age. We have loads of numbers these days as we all know! :-)

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Posted by: davesnothere ( )
Date: April 30, 2012 12:39PM

"They've given you a number,and taken away your name."



"I am not a number, I am a free man!"

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Posted by: SusieQ#1 ( )
Date: April 30, 2012 12:48PM

Nobody took away your name, it's still necessary when dealing with the LDS Church and using the membership number. It's just an adjunct. Everyone has a phone number, social security number, drivers license number, etc. No biggie!

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Posted by: davesnothere ( )
Date: April 30, 2012 12:55PM

1960's pop culture references to "Secrete Agent Man" and "The Prisoner" ;-)

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Posted by: ambivalent exmo ( )
Date: May 01, 2012 01:29AM


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Posted by: ambivalent exmo ( )
Date: May 01, 2012 01:34AM


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Posted by: Lostmypassword ( )
Date: April 30, 2012 02:08PM

When the Earth was young and I was a little lad my Aunt used to come by every Sunday and drag me off to (non-Mo) church with my cousins. Collection was taken by (elderly adult) deacons passing a velvet bag on a long stick down the pews. One fine Sunday one of my cousins dropped a live lizard into the bag. The elderly deacon about had a heart attack when his collection bag came alive. I was falsely blamed and convicted; as punishment I was required to memorize a bunch of biblical "begats." The "begats" are about as boring as it gets.

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Posted by: CL2 ( )
Date: April 30, 2012 02:13PM

as my daughter wanted my membership number for her genealogy class. I found my baptism and blessing documents and no numbers. (I'm almost 55.) I told her she'd have to ask the bishop of this ward.

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Posted by: thingsithink ( )
Date: April 30, 2012 03:53PM

TSCC has a number: 0

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Posted by: SusieQ#1 ( )
Date: April 30, 2012 04:14PM

ID numbers, and on and on. My car has a VIN number.
Numbers are here to stay, folks.
Use them if you want access to your accurate info. Nearly everything is computerized these days.
The Internet is full of dozens of needed numbers including passwords, pin numbers etc.
About makes me bleary-eyed trying to keep the list straight! :-)

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Posted by: mcarp ( )
Date: April 30, 2012 09:07PM

My father has never been a Mormon and HE has a number. (It shows up on my membership record because they track parents.)

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Posted by: lilygeorge ( )
Date: May 01, 2012 08:35PM

Wow - now that is interesting! Maybe the goal is that everyone in the whole world will get a Mormon number. Maybe if you never went to the temple to get one of the names but you know your number you can sneak into the Celestial. They will need more bouncers.

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Posted by: Suckafoo ( )
Date: May 01, 2012 08:56PM

A number would be very important because at any time your status can change. Yesterday maybe you could have attended your daughter's wedding but today you cannot. They need to be up on you because you might not be worthy day after tomorrow. Plus, you are connected and sealed to different family. They need to sever those ties if one of your family leaves the church and numbers are the best way to track who can make it into the celestial kingdom on any given day.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 05/01/2012 08:58PM by suckafoo.

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