Posted by:
anagrammy
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Date: October 28, 2012 01:55AM
One of my neighbors here in the apartment building tells me he loves me. We have known each other for two years and he lives right across the hall from me. The problem is he doesn't actually speak English, just what I call restaurant English.
Because I can't really explain anything, and arranging dates and times for activities is a challenge...for example, I call him and say, "If you want to go see a movie, give me a call." The next day I see him all hangdog asking why he waited and waited and I never came home to go to a movie with him."
SOOOOO...here's my question. When I am visiting in his apartment having coffee, he takes every single phone call that comes in. He engages in long conversations in Amharic, his native language. Sometimes he leaps up and says, "I have to go do a favor for a friend, you need to go see your home."
I think this is extremely rude and this happens virtually every time I come over. If he were a regular American, I would call this rude, but maybe this is how women are treated in Ethiopia? Except some of his callers are women and he is quick to tell me they are not girlfriends.
Am I being irritable?
Anagrammy
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/28/2012 01:55AM by anagrammy.