Posted by:
vulturetamer
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Date: October 28, 2012 01:55AM
Ok, I decided to let it ride.....the fact that my son is turning 12 soon, and wants to get the p hood. I'm resigned to allow him to do that, but the one place I will not budge is the closed-door interview between him & the bishop.
My ex informed me that the interview is tomorrow, as he is the exec sec, and can schedule at will. I told him I will be there, and in no uncertain terms, is our son to be interviewed without his father or I present, in the room.
My ex is perplexed, and of course now his radar is up. I didn't say anything to him about why I feel this way, just that neither of our children will ever be interviewed alone, while they are minors.
He said he would, "let the bishop know". And then proceeded to ask me if there is something he should know about. I told him no, except what I said previously.
So tomorrow morning, I am going to be shaking inside, I'm sure. And I feel badly for my son, because surely he will be wondering. But the good thing is, that this is his first interview as a "youth", so there is no precedent that has been set. This IS the precedent.
I just need some thoughts......some words that are straightforward, but not completely jerky, for when the bishop gets upset or wants to try to convince me that this is perfectly appropriate.
(I'm already ex'd, so I don't have much to lose......but I need to maintain some semblance of dignity & don't want to be the crazy biatch......I want to be polite but firm.)
Any advice is appreciated very much.