If you had read all of the rape threads, you would know I never said and do not believe that sluts cannot be raped. Rape is always the fault of the rapist even if the victim is a prostitute who has passed out naked in an alley. All I said was that being in such a position puts you at high risk. Responsible people try to avoid such situations. That does not guarantee that you won't be a victim, but it improves the odds.The same is true of other types of crime. Smart people don't leave their doors unlocked, the keys in the ignition or give out personal information.They don't flash credit.cards,cash and expensive jewels in unsafe situations. I am disgusted by the ridiculous and judgmental comments made to me by a few people. This is my last post on the subject.My advice is to read all the posts before commenting.

http://exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,751574,751581#msg-751581

And this?

http://exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,751574,751634#msg-751634

And this?

http://exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,751574,751654#msg-751654

And this?

http://exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,751574,751740#msg-751740

And this?

http://exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,751574,751770#msg-751770

You have this girl regularly getting drunk out of her mind and going home with strange men, getting drunk or stoned, hitchhiking, and picking up strangers in bars, despite having been warned that her behavior was dangerous. You seem to have a pretty strong desire for her to be "exhibiting behavior that puts her at risk," when all her idiot mo sister said was she had some friends, talked a certain way on Facebook, and "the guys" ... whatever that means.

To me it seems far more likely she just got pregnant, as young girls and even very mature women do, and either made up or was coerced into telling a story to her mother, who is clearly also an idiot.

Why do you need it to be more than that?

All the links take me to the top of the thread, but that could be my phone, not your linking...
I know the point you're making though, and you are correct. Such a disconnect...

I should add that I'm only guessing, based on what the Babycenter idiot said at the end of her thread, that her sister wasn't raped.

http://community.babycenter.com/post/a38954251/help_me_soften_my_heart?cpg=5&csi=2406398461&pd=4 (scroll down to comments by dlorcutt)

If she was raped, that makes dlorcutt even more callous than most of us thought.

Driving a car puts me at risk of having an accident. Going to work puts me at risk of getting the flu. Going to a church puts me at risk of being overly judgmental. Bona, you know you worded your posts wrong, just sack up and admit that you shot way beyond the mark on this.

... have little to do with increasing or decreasing risk.

A particular rapist, for example, might prefer the shy or modestly dressed type. Might even be an otherwise good christian fellow. If that's the case, and it often is, then a woman has as good a chance of getting raped by going to church as she does by going to a bar.

The poster-in-question's implied and rather false notion is that all men have a common breaking point. Nothing could be farther from the truth. I'm generally a "total package" kinda guy who is specifically attracted to women who give good mind (if ya know what I mean). That being said, I'm also a well known and widely regarded connoisseur of nicely displayed cleavage.

Each year, I attend a local renaissance festival wherein two tons of the finest cleavage the world has ever known is proudly showcased. Am I compelled to free all those poor captive tatas and have my way with them? Not any more than I'm moved to defile, degrade or grope Michelangelo's work. Its just pleasing eye candy and I can leave it at that. What it does for the individual owner I have no idea, but I highly doubt that she's extending an open invitation to every hard d**k in the general vicinity.

Victims already have it bad enough without having to bear the burden of guilt. Injecting possibilities in the form of way-off-target speculation and conjecture makes matters worse. Rape is rape. That's all there is to it. There is no excuse and no one to blame or punish but the perpetrator.

As for the passed-out naked hooker in the alley, I don't know where that particular snatch has been. But even if I did, I'd be more inclined to help than do more harm as necrophilia isn't my gig either.

Timothy



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 01/06/2013 08:46PM by Timothy.

Thanks for posting that Timothy.