Posted by:
rusty123
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Date: December 20, 2013 12:49AM
I posted awhile back about some of this and this is an update to the situation.
I left the church 8 months ago and officially told my parents 5 months ago. After telling my parents why I left I started getting letters from them almost every week telling me why they believed and basically trying to get me to believe again, however they never actually addressed any of the issues as to why I left, other than J.S. wasn't perfect.
After about 3 months of this I finally wrote them back saying that I still didn't believe and that I would talk more about my disbelief if that was a conversation they really wanted to have, but I feared that the conversation would do more harm than good for both sides. After that they stopped writing me for a few months until today I got a letter from my dad saying he is disappointed that I've come to him for advice on so many things in my life but when it came to my journey out of the church that I never came to him, that I decided to trust in strangers on the internet with hidden agendas because they were offended or that they want to sin therefore they are not trustworthy people. He accused me of being closed minded even though in the letter I sent him I specifically stated that I was open to new enlightenment on the issues if there was any out there.
It was hard for me to even read the whole letter without getting upset and emotional I'm just sick of the 'offended and wanting to sin' stereotype.
Christmas is coming up and I will be going to my parents, what should I do? I have a feeling that he's going to want to talk about it again. I'm tempted to send him the John Dehlin video - Top 5 myths why members leave the church, as a precursor to us having any discussion to at least put a damper on the ex-mormon stereotype that he so fully believes.