Posted by:
Cheryl
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Date: December 01, 2014 05:16AM
I've had to distance myself from TBM relatives. I don't often communicate with them because they've proven to be toxic.
When I do talk to them, I notice that their mindset and maturity levels are stalled where they were when they were teenagers and we all lived in a TBM home together. It's like they haven't grown or learned much of life in many decades.
The people I socialize with have grown and changed over the years. They become wiser and more mature the longer I know them.
But TBM relatives? They are like stubborn children who still make excuses and lash out to get their way. They start with a false conclusion and gather and kind of crazy "evidence" to prove they are right about whatever is under discussion. I feel like I'm back in our childhood dysfunctional household whenever we have to interact.
Have your TBM siblings and other relatives shown normal growth and learning over the years? Or are they also stunted and immature for their age?