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Joe's Buried Treasure
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Date: October 15, 2010 04:55PM
I really appreciate all your comments. No, I don't believe in a damn thing about the church. What I am saying is that, theoretically, what if someone were married with the hope of eternity, but still thought that it was somewhat of a false hope? I mean, then you can still hope to be involved with someone in a way that kind of propentiates your feelings to a higher level. That's what I'm saying. I just want a hopeful marriage. And at a theoretical level, can we somehow live a good life and be reconciled in the end with our accomplishments without guilt? What would be a decent vehicle for that? I mean, the BoM isn't true, but the metaphorical aspect of reconciling yourself before death always rang true to me. One that propels the feeling of your soul, as you pass, into a state of hope and bliss. Maybe it's just a feeling that I get in general out of life and the things I go through, but I have a general desire to be reconciled to some kind of universal force at the very least before I die. I have a need for structure. I feel like it would be so easy to just reconcile myself with myself only, but I have a desperate need to feel connected by some kind of hope between those closest to me that is positive and I can't do that without the church, because my parents won't give it up. Do you understand the complexity of my feelings? I'm not trying to make you view me as a girl with issues, but I just feel really deep emotions that have no way to be healthily expressed. By the way, I haven't even hardly touched the BoM since coming home a year ago; I just wish that some kind of organization could exist that isn't a church that has these same kind of hopes, if for the sake of only hoping and nothing else, based on no other true logic whatsoever except for theoretical and philosophical rhetoric. Why can't some kind of BENIGN organization out there exist that has these kinds of forums that exist so people can come together and reason these things out? Am I supposed to make one? I certainly have the desire to make one suited to myself. I have felt the deepest anguish since coming to terms with my unbelief and I wouldn't have even considered it if it weren't for what I know my parents feel. Does that make sense? I mean, the church only exists today because of hopeful mothers and fathers that needed some kind of reassurance and were afraid of death, so we have them to blame for the Mormon church really. The church took hold of people's desires along the lines of what I discussed and exploited them into a super-cult nightmare that you see. Do you understand possibly why the church is so cultish? If we had a healthier way to express ourselves or at least a different but similar way of hoping for positive things, the Mormon church would be unneeded or at least it never would have gotten to the crazy state it's in.
So, if I sounded insane and impractical, mixed with a desire for anything Mormon whatsoever, you would be wrong. Sorry to mix that up. I just understood what I meant and didn't explain it better. Hope this clears it up. (This has also been shared in like content in a new thread. Feel free to comment there instead).