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Posted by: Stray Mutt ( )
Date: December 25, 2014 09:31PM

And he doesn't know if he'll go back to religion. Or hasn't announced his intent yet.

http://www.addictinginfo.org/2014/12/24/pastor-who-gave-up-religion-for-a-year-to-test-his-faith-says-he-might-not-go-back/

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Posted by: Dave the Atheist ( )
Date: December 25, 2014 10:30PM

bunk

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Posted by: The StalkerDog™ ( )
Date: December 25, 2014 10:56PM

Dave the Atheist Wrote:
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> bunk

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Okay, D-the-A, could you please elaborate?
What part of it's bunk? You think he's a phonus balonus?

I guess what I don't get is why is this news? People go through stuff like that- changes, doubts, and all that- all the time. My mom did. She still is going through some, maybe like part of depression, I dunno. Is it just cause this guy is or was a pastor? Maybe that was what turned him off religion!

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Posted by: Dave the Atheist ( )
Date: December 26, 2014 12:27AM

It's just another christer publicity stunt.

the scammer has no philosophical basis for being an Atheist.
He is just going to report to his flock that he "tried Atheism" and found it to be wanting.


I've seen this crap before.

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Posted by: Rusty Shackleford ( )
Date: December 26, 2014 01:10AM

Addicting Info is more than willing to push bunk. They're all about the ad revenue.

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Posted by: MJ ( )
Date: December 25, 2014 11:52PM

One is either an Atheist (not theist) or a theist. One can not be a theist living as an Atheist. At best, they are a theist pretending they do not believe in God.

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Posted by: axeldc ( )
Date: December 26, 2014 06:29AM

I think they mean a year without religion.

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Posted by: MJ ( )
Date: December 29, 2014 10:07PM

That is not the same as living as an atheist. There are plenty of people that believe in God but are not religious.

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Posted by: axeldc ( )
Date: January 05, 2015 08:08PM

Other than talking a lot about a church they don't want to attend, how are atheists different from anyone else who doesn't go to church?

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Posted by: MJ ( )
Date: January 05, 2015 08:14PM

belief in god is not the same as chruch.

Again, many people believe in God without going to or belonging to a church.

Atheism is lack of belief in a God. Atheism is not defined by religion or church, neither is theism. A person can be a theist without going to a church or being a member of a religion.

How can one believe in a God but live as if they do not? Believing in god or not is part of how one lives a life.

How does one live as if they do not have a belief when they do have a belief? That is the same problem as the guy that claimed to live as a black man when he was not black. He does not actually know what it is like to be black because he is not black. A life long believer does not know what it is like to not believe because they believe.



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Posted by: Stray Mutt ( )
Date: December 26, 2014 01:14PM

Many religious people become atheists. They change over time. The transition has to start somewhere.

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Posted by: MJ ( )
Date: December 29, 2014 10:07PM

True, but it does not actually address my point.

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Posted by: Pista ( )
Date: December 26, 2014 12:36AM

It seems like the word "atheist" is distracting from the point of what this guy really did. He had some doubts, and decided to experiment with how his faith affected his life. That's a good thing to do, but they ended up throwing around the word "atheism" to somehow sensationalize the whole thing. Good for him, for being willing to challenge his own beliefs, and for being willing to live with uncertainty.

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Posted by: MJ ( )
Date: December 26, 2014 12:41AM

Well, maybe he was throwing around the the word atheism to sensationalize a publicity stunt.

As I said elsewhere, either you are an atheist or you are a theist. There is no living as an atheist. I can't imagine what would happen if a white guy went into a black neighborhood and said "I'm living as a black person for a year".

Also, Atheism is not a lifestyle.



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Posted by: Pista ( )
Date: December 26, 2014 01:00AM

MJ Wrote:
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I can't imagine what would happen if a
> white guy went into a black neighborhood and said
> "I'm living as a black person for a year".

You don't have to imagine this. You can read John Howard Griffin's book "Black Like Me" where he did just this.


> Also, Atheism is not a lifestyle.

This man was a pastor, who made his life decisions based on a religious lifestyle. He decided to stop doing that; a change in his lifestyle based on acting as though he did not believe in god. Again, he decided to try questioning his beliefs.

I agree; a theis can't just "try on" atheism. But a doubter can certainly make a point of changing his behavior by chosing not to act on the beliefs he has previously taken for granted.

If he was truly having doubts about the existence of his god, enough doubt to sacrifice his career, that's an awful lot like lacking belief, which is the definition of atheism.

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Posted by: blueorchid ( )
Date: December 26, 2014 10:45AM

Good points. I can applaud him if it was sincere exploration, if he wanted to push the boundaries of his belief system. However, I suppose time will tell if it was only a publicity stunt for Christianity. Interesting at any rate.

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Posted by: MJ ( )
Date: December 29, 2014 10:16PM

Too bad they are red herrings and not valid logic. Nothing he address actually makes him an atheist or living as an atheist.

He either lacks a belief in God making him an atheist, or he believes in God making him a theist. Since atheist is the negation of theist, those are the only tow options. Everything that is not a theist is an atheist.

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Posted by: MJ ( )
Date: December 29, 2014 10:13PM

Pista Wrote:
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> MJ Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> I can't imagine what would happen if a
> > white guy went into a black neighborhood and
> said
> > "I'm living as a black person for a year".
>
> You don't have to imagine this. You can read John
> Howard Griffin's book "Black Like Me" where he did
> just this.

No matter what he said he did, he did not live as a black man, he was a white man pretending to live as a black man. He always knew he could walk away and stop pretending. Black people do not have that option.


>
>
> > Also, Atheism is not a lifestyle.
>
> This man was a pastor, who made his life decisions
> based on a religious lifestyle. He decided to stop
> doing that; a change in his lifestyle based on
> acting as though he did not believe in god. Again,
> he decided to try questioning his beliefs.
>

Does not mean he is living as an atheist.

> I agree; a theis can't just "try on" atheism. But
> a doubter can certainly make a point of changing
> his behavior by chosing not to act on the beliefs
> he has previously taken for granted.
>

Changing behavior has nothing to do with Atheism. Atheism is a lack of belief in God. Behaving like one does not believe in God does not apply.

> If he was truly having doubts about the existence
> of his god, enough doubt to sacrifice his career,
> that's an awful lot like lacking belief, which is
> the definition of atheism.

One can still doubt but not be an Atheist. Again behavior, jobs or sacrifices do not define an atheist. Lack of belief in God defines an atheist. Being an "awful lot like lacking belief" is not lack of belief.

The only way he could live as an atheist is to do the one thing that defines an atheist, have no belief if God.



Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 12/30/2014 12:29AM by MJ.

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Posted by: donbagley ( )
Date: December 26, 2014 12:53AM

How can a person arbitrarily change his cosmology for a period with the intent to change back?

I think I'll abandon Copernican Heliocentricism until Saturday. I'm going Ptolemy, you follow me?

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Posted by: East Coast Exmo ( )
Date: December 26, 2014 06:19AM

It could make a huge difference for a NASA employee.

Let's hope this type of experiment doesn't become popular there.

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Posted by: axeldc ( )
Date: December 26, 2014 06:27AM

This is a bit how I left. I decided to take a vacation from church for a month, but it felt so good I didn't go back. I made an appearance 4 months later, but other than seeing "friends" who couldn't be bothered to seek me out, I got nothing out of it.

Religion fills your life and time, but if you walk away for a while you realize that you can fill it just as well on your own.

For those thinking of leaving, it does not have to be all or nothing. Test it out for a few weeks and see if you really miss it. Chances are, you find you have time to do things you always wanted to do instead.

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Posted by: blueorchid ( )
Date: December 26, 2014 01:32PM

In a small way it was the way I left too. I was still TBM, had no doubts at all, but the last time I went to church I just could not stand to be there. I couldn't explain it even to myself but just could not be there one more minute. Thankfully I figured it all right after that and didn't have to feel guilty about not going.

And isn't having your Sundays for yourself just the best after all those years in the church? Who could give that up and go back.

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Posted by: Anonymous User ( )
Date: December 29, 2014 10:21PM

One thing I noticed when I was younger was that a lot of people who worked on Sunday ended up leaving the cult. They couldn't stand being lectured & judged.

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Posted by: matt ( )
Date: December 26, 2014 10:35AM

That Dave and his crazy one word replies.

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Posted by: Anonymous User ( )
Date: December 26, 2014 02:51PM

He was living a secular life for a year, not a life as an atheist for a year.

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Posted by: Stray Mutt ( )
Date: December 29, 2014 09:59PM


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Posted by: MJ ( )
Date: December 29, 2014 10:24PM

That can happen once one embraces a secular viewpoint vs a religious viewpoint.

The fact that he no longer believes in God NOW seems to indicate he had a belief in God while he was allegedly living as if he did not have a belief in God. It does not seem possible to live a life as if you do not believe in God when you do believe in god, does it? Living a life as an atheist means living a life without a belief in God.

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Posted by: Dave the Atheist ( )
Date: December 29, 2014 10:26PM

so tell me just how one lives life "as" an Atheist.

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Posted by: nonsequiter ( )
Date: January 05, 2015 10:35PM

Maybe he was using it as a euphemism for worrying a lot less and being generally happier?

Although I think he just wants to masturbate guilt free.

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