Posted by:
Katrina
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Date: September 19, 2010 09:39AM
I'm thinking specifically schizophrenia.
I sometimes think all the rules are good for someone who suffers from mental illness and doesn't understand certain types of boundaries, but not that Mormonism teaches good--just that the heavily rule-based org keeps them safe by encouraging them to do things like reading scriptures, avoiding or staying away from drugs and alcohol etc.
I have a relative with schizophrenia and I think on one hand, it's good for him because he is convinced that his job in life is to do good for everyone (he bends over backward to help thers constantly)--and when he does this, people are nice to him. He believes this is his duty, to be super helpful to everyone, even though sometimes (well, often) he does so at the expense of his own needs.
BUT the reward he gets in people thanking him for being so helpful feeds his very low self esteem.
BTW, he doesn't take meds. If he did, then I think his life might be better as an exmo--but with all the fears, worries and delusions her harbors, it seems like Mormonism gives him some purpose (shudder; I can't stand Mormonism myself, but think it maybe keeps him afloat)