Posted by:
Mother Who Knows
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Date: November 20, 2017 08:10AM
Your wife has been a "woman who works outside the home", for most of her life. I find that this separates a woman from the Mormon mainstream.
Being divorced and single also makes one "different."
Elderolddog is accurate in his description of how Mormons think. Being single and divorced, she is thought of as someone with a lesser income. If she owns her own house, the cult might have an eye on her house. She might get pressured into leaving money to the cult in her Will. Older people need to beware of the cult!
If your ex-wife is close to retiring, maybe the cult has approached her to go on a mission. Now that she is laid-up, she's not missionary-material, anymore.
Your ex-wife is obviously a woman of achievement, and has lived an exemplary life of REAL service to others. She deserves respect for that! Some RS women could even be jealous of her. I was a single divorced working mother for years, and some women were actually jealous that I was single and free and happy. A lot of them are in bad marriages. I made more money than some of the men. Maybe your ex-wife does, too.
I was one who would take dinners to people in our ward. (Yes, we were assigned, but it was mainly to organize the delivery of the meals.) When I became seriously ill, and had to take a leave of absence from work, no one offered to help me. At the time, my children and I were active, and my illness caused me to quit my callings. All I got was a hard time and nasty threats! At work, they didn't pay me, but they were nice, and kept my office and position open for me, and I went back part-time, after a few months, then full-time, ever since. I couldn't pay tithing, without an income, and the Mormons really hated that. When they demanded that I find substitutes for my callings, and even teach organ lessons, I had to remind them that I was seriously ill, and it was not my job to find people for callings. None of the neighborhood Mormons brought me meals, or even called to see how I was doing. I was no longer of any use to them.
Maybe your ex-wife will see the Mormon church for what it really is--a self-serving cult of lies, created for the purpose of making money.
Mormonism never was about "love", or Christ, at all.