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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: April 17, 2018 01:57PM
Cont: DW is making me feel terrible.

I wanted to reply to this from anonandanon in the now closed thread.

https://www.exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,2103624,2103785#msg-2103785

It took my wife many moons to come to terms with what happened to her. I don't think she has completely. This is by design. Mormonism forces the believing spouse to adjust to an untenable and pariah position.

I'm not judging the mightbuffalo's wife because I've seen first hand and still live with someone who was torn apart by my losing my religion. And of the religions to lose and make it a mixed marriage, Mormonism is probably the worst from which to attempt it.

Mine may not make it. I believe my moving us from Utah County probably saved our marriage when my disbelief happened. My wife has a reference group which only includes a few Mormons. Her family went through a period of grief adjusting the new me. My family will never accept my disbelief. This is probably the more church approved method.

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