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Posted by: Lost ( )
Date: February 12, 2012 12:15PM

[Compiled by Fred W. Anson with the generous aid and assistance of current and former members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints as well as knowledgeable outsiders who, despite never having been a member of the LdS Church, long to see it reform for the sake of their Latter-day Saint friends and family members]

WHAT'S WRONG WITH THE MORMON CHURCH?

Ninety Five theses for consideration, discussion, and action regarding a modern church badly in need of reform.

1) It lies to and attempts to deceive its own members and investigators regarding Mormon History and Theology.

2) It villianizes critics - even constructive critics - both within and without its ranks.

3) It engages in Mind Control tactics and techniques in indoctrinating members.

4) It suppresses its financial records eliminating any form of accountability in terms of how member contributions are used.

5) It tolerates abuse of ecclesiastical power by LdS Church Leaders.

6) It suppresses loyal dissent from within its ranks via disciplinary action up to and including excommunication.

7) It forces members to choose between the LdS Church and apostate spouses.

8) LdS Church Leaders denounce and shun former members and encourages members to do the same.

9) It keeps members so busy with LdS Church related activities that they don't have time for personal reflection and self-autonomy. This is especially true of men as the demands of lay leadership tend to deprive them of real, regular, authentic family time.

10) It deceptively claims to be "Christian" when in reality it has taken Christian words, terms and forms and then changed the underlying meaning and content to an extent that they’re no longer congruent with Biblical Theology.

11) It erroneously asserts that former members didn’t leave the LdS Church for any thoughtful or legitimate reason but rather that they were thin skinned reactive, malcontents who left the LdS Church because they wanted to sin with impunity, or because of a perceived offense.

12) It drives a wedge between member and non-member family members. Ex-Mormon family members in particular are to be avoided but the LdS Church also encourages members to avoid “Never Mormon” family members who are openly critical of the LdS Church.

13) It encourages arrogance and self-righteousness in members by preaching that they're more enlightened and morally superior relative to the general population – including other people of faith.

14) It suppresses LdS Church owned documents and artifacts that would expose #1.

15) It restricts distribution to the LdS “Church Handbook of Instruction Book 1: Stake Presidents and Bishops” (aka “Handbook 1”) to only the Bishopric level and higher. This eliminates transparent “bottom up” accountability enabling ecclesiastical abuse because lay members can’t confront local leaders and/or report policy violations to higher authorities for rectification.

16) It practices graceless, merciless, condemning, legalistic disciplinary extremes – far beyond Biblical standards - in regard to those who have engaged in sexual activity outside of marriage putting them into a, “no-win” double-bind spiral into hopeless despair.

17) It uses guilt as a means of controlling members.

18) It puts its untrained clergy in a position where they must give counsel on vital life issues that they are not qualified or equipped to competently address. The result, all too often, is ecclesiastical malpractice.
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19) It preaches doctrine that leads to unhealthy, aberrant dating and courtship behavior.

20) It uses the LdS Temple system (via the Temple Recommend process) as a means of coercing members into compliance with the will of the extant Mormon leaders.

21) It discourages self-autonomy and self-responsibility and encourages dependency on LdS Church Leaders.

22) It puts undue financial strain on member families by making tithing mandatory rather than voluntary.

23) It drives a wedge between member and non-member family members via exclusionary and highly restrictive American LdS Church marriage policies – which, paradoxically, are more flexible and inclusionary outside of the United States.

24) It encourages irrational, subjective epistemology and belittles epistemological systems based on reason, objectivity, and empiricism.

25) It encourages anti-intellectualism.

26) It subjugates women under male authority rather than granting them full partnership.

27) It uses LdS Priesthood dogma to devalue women subordinating them to "second class" status in the LdS Church.

28) It imposes discredited and unbiblical 19th Century dietary regulations on members.

29) It contrives man created "revelations" and claims that they are of divine origin.

30) It uses LdS Church and member owned institutions and businesses to coerce obedience to its dogma and leaders.

31) It quells and compromises good scholarship within its rank by shunning, dis-fellowshipping and excommunicating members who produce scholarly works discussing Mormon History, Theology, or culture that have scholastic integrity.

32) It rewards inauthentic, compliance and punishes authentic, self-autonomy.

33) It punishes honest doubt and rewards blind compliance.

34) It engages in Mind Control techniques in the Missionary Training Center.

35) It engages in Mind Control tactics with Mormons on their Mission.

36) It requires members to remain in a "snapped" psychological state in order to remain believing members.

37) It allows - even encourages - members to use ad-hominems, insults, slurs, derogatories, labeling, and character assassination in their dealings with critics and apostates.

38) It "love bombs" investigators and new converts as a means of drawing them in.

39) It allows members to privately believe whatever they want - even if it's atheistic or contradicts LdS orthodoxy - as long as they publicly "tow the party line" and continue to contribute their time and money to the LdS Church.

40) It damages member psychology via the use of manipulative fear.

41) It damages member psychology via unachievable standards of "worthiness".

42) It makes extraordinary – even outrageous - truth claims that are easily discredited by science, history, and the Bible.

43) It requires members to adhere to moral and intellectual relativism in order to create the delusion that its incongruous and inconsistent belief system works, has integrity, and is both moral and ethical.

44) It excuses, rationalizes, justifies, and white washes the moral failings (especially bigamy, adultery, and lying) of its founder, famous members, and past leaders.

45) It focuses on the needs and interests of the institution over the needs and interests of the members.

46) It privately judges and abandons members that have life problems rather than patiently, encouraging, undergirding, supporting, and attempting to restore them to a healthy, productive place. This while publicly declaring that the LdS Church treats all such cases with benevolent kindness.

47) It tends to view any doubt, character flaw, or personal deficiency as "sin" rather than as a normal expression of the human condition and life experience.

48) It tries to expose, quarantine, isolate, shun - and if necessary expel - those who doubt rather than creating a safe place when they can honestly and openly work through their doubts and questions.

49) It asserts that doctrinal differences, criticisms, or questions about LdS Church policies are sin, for the 'prophet' is always right. Those who engage in such behaviors - or refuse to comply with the status quo - are subject to discipline up to and including ex-communication.

50) It uses home teachers and the "Strengthening the Membership" committee as a means of spying on members.

51) It has created an implied expectation that members must always be perfect and/or "all together" or they're in sin and unworthy of advancement within the organization.

52) It uses arbitrary, capricious, and ever changing criteria for Temple Recommend "worthiness".

53) It preaches extreme, legalistic, and arbitrary sexual standards regarding masturbation that are not Biblically supportable.

54) It has created a clannish and elitist "authority" system via its unbiblical Temple and Priesthood system.

55) It creates unhealthy elitist pride in men and their wives via LdS Priesthood doctrine and dogma.

56) It encourages arrogant, condescending pride in members by telling them that they "have the whole and restored truth" that “apostates” only have in part and “gentiles” lack entirely.

57) The Correlation Program it tries to turn everyone into a Utah Mormon and every Chapel, Ward, and Stake into a Utah Chapel, Ward, and Stake rather than encouraging - even celebrating - each culture's unique distinctives.

58) The behavior, policies, and decisions of Mormon Leadership throughout history demonstrate that things are far more important to them than people.

59) It dis-fellowships and excommunicates its true prophets.

60) It mandates that LdS Church History be presented by members to members (even in private) in a manner that's uplifting and only presents the LdS Church in a favorable light – even if the resulting narrative is no longer factual and/or supported by the body of evidence.

61) It rationalizes away the bad behavior, errors of judgment, and disastrous decisions of present or past "Living Prophets" - they are buried, ignored, or spun as "well-meaning human error". This practice even extends to behaviors and decisions that are/were disastrous, immoral, or illegal.

62) It rationalizes away the revelations - even those that were fully canonized - of present or past "Living Prophets" that contradict contemporary LdS Church teachings and culture. The no-longer-in-vogue revelations are buried, ignored, or recast as "opinion not divine". The "He was speaking as a man not a prophet" apologetic is typically used as the rationalization in these cases.

63) It rationalizes the failed prophecies of future events by past "Living Prophets" by burying, ignoring, or spin doctoring them as "just his opinion", or as requiring more time for fulfillment.

64) It employs circular logic in its core truth claim: “The only true church is The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints because The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints says it’s the only true church.”

65) It tolerates the chronic LdS Church Leader practice of eisegesis (injecting words and ideas into the text that the author did not intend, use or mean) as their standard hermeneutic in interpreting the Biblical, historical, and scientific record.

66) It allows and encourages the Church Educational System (CES) to practice eisegesis in interpreting the Biblical and historical record for LdS Church publications and curriculum. By doing so, CES normalizes this fallacious hermeneutic and gives the illusion that one can accurately perceive reality by employing it.

67) It undermines intellectual integrity when, by following the example learned from LdS Church Leaders and the Church Educational System (CES), members engage in eisegesis as a life style in all areas of life.

68) It poisons members who leave the LdS Church against all other Theistic religions.

69) It uses the term “official doctrine” as a means of silencing critics and dissents even though there is no formal, codified definition for constitutes “official doctrine”.

70) It tolerates an untenable situation whereby the canonization process isn’t officially defined or codified yet is used to deny past publications, prophetic revelations, and other utterances from past Mormon Leaders that are no longer in vogue.

71) Its behavior throughout history demonstrates that are no unchanging, absolute, objective truths in the LdS Church. Rather “truth” is subjective, relative, in flux, and subject to change.

72) It has allowed Mormon folklore to take on pseudo-scriptural equivalency.

73) It has created a culture whereby fear of their family’s reaction forces disenchanted LdS Missionaries to continue with their missions whether they want to or not.

74) It has created a culture whereby a man or a woman who decides to leave the LdS Church must also be willing to give up his or her family.

75) It so thoroughly indoctrinates members that their highest loyalty is to the LdS Church (not to a husband, wife, son, daughter, or even to the truth) that a member who associates or sympathizes with an “apostate” or a non-Mormon family member who is critical of the LdS Church risks failing his or her temple worthiness interview.

76) It preaches a soteriological system and creates an internal, hierarchical social order that incentivizes converts to Mormonism to divorce their unbelieving spouse and marry a believing Mormon instead.

77) It doesn’t allow Young Mormon siblings (usually under 18) to see an older sister or brother get married in an LdS Temple - even if the younger person is a faithful Mormon in good standing.

78) It claims to be “pro-family” while simultaneous creating a culture that breaks up both Mormon and non-Mormon families.

79) It has failed to directly address the ever mounting discrepancies between the claims of The Book of Mormon and the archaeological, historical, theological, and scientific body of evidence.

80) It has failed to explain the incriminating consistency between the claims of The Book of Mormon and the empirical 19th Century, political, literary, cultural and theological record.

81) It has failed to provide a rational explanation for how Joseph Smith could “translate” the Book of Abraham from an Egyptian Book of Breathings papyrus.

82) It has failed to explain how Joseph Smith could, via The Joseph Smith Translation of the Bible, append the Bible with “translations” of entire new books and chapters that have no corresponding manuscript base to translate from while simultaneously purging words, verses – even entire books – that are substantially supported by the extant manuscript base.

83) It compensates leaders via employment in LdS Church owned businesses, board memberships on member owned businesses, generous honoraria, stipends, grants, scholarships, gifts, and non-cash contributions then deceptively claims that “The LdS Church has no paid clergy”. This is nothing more than lying via semantics and a sophisticated financial “shell game”.

84) It bestows the title “Elder” onto adolescent men (typically 19-years old) with little to no real life experience, thus puffing them up with arrogance and deluding them with prideful ignorance.

85) It hypocritically denounces those who claim to bring forth new scripture and revelations using the same methods and means that Joseph Smith did because they fail to conform to established LdS Church orthodoxy. This, while simultaneously criticizing the Biblical Church for rejecting Mormonism because its founding leader's new revelations and scripture fail conform to established Christian orthodoxy.

86) It hypocritically rails against all sound logic and reason as “the hollow and vain philosophies of men, not God” and then hypocritically attempts to (albeit poorly and inconsistently) employ logic and reason in its arguments and rhetoric.

87) It hypocritically defines polemic arguments as “persecution” and then engages in polemics with its critics.

88) It allows LdS Church leaders, to distance themselves from the work of LdS Apologists so as – it is believed – to create a “plausible deniability” escape hatch should the work of said Apologists be discredited by more qualified, objective scholarship. Never-the-less the very same leaders will cite from the work of LdS Apologists (albeit typically not credited) in public addresses while allowing the LdS Church to quietly fund the work of said LdS Apologists through indirect cash flows.

89) It engages in political action via direct and indirect cash flows and privately exhorts members to organize and engage in particular causes and then publicly denies any involvement. California’s Propositions 22 (circa 2000) and 8 (circa 2008) are two cases in point.

90) It publicly (and loudly) trumpets its philanthropic work when compared to other churches its per capita outlay is less than what smaller, less wealthy, less organized religious organizations spend.

91) It sent the wrong message in 2003 by pledging to spend $1-Billion US dollars to redevelop downtown Salt Lake City (via the City Creek Center project). Due to cost over runs the final project cost is now forecast to be around $8-Billion US dollars.

92) It has a double standard for treating non-members with charitable benevolence (as a means of proselytizing and public relations) while exacting, high, often unattainable standards that members must meet to receive the same levels of attention, aid, and assistance.

93) It fails to recognize the sixty (60) or so active Latter Day Saint movement denominations (aka “splinter groups”) while hypocritically condemning the denominationalism of Christianity as a proof of apostasy and lack of veracity. This hypocrisy is even more pronounced when one considers that over the 180+ year history of the LDS movement there have been nearly 200 Latter Day Saint denominations with new ones still regularly forming.

94) Based on its observed behavior its core unifying principle seems to be "Image over truth always and in all things.”

95) It creates undue demands as well as mental, emotional, and spiritual stress and strain on members via all the above.

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Posted by: myselfagain ( )
Date: February 12, 2012 12:27PM

Damn...that was well thought out and extremely accurate. Excellent post.

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Posted by: Not the Girl You Used to Know ( )
Date: February 12, 2012 12:51PM

I appreciate the time and thought that went to this extensive list of wrongs that are perpetuated by an organization that professes to be authored and led by Jesus Christ. I need to find a way to expose my TBM family members to this excellent compilation.
THANK YOU!

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Posted by: derrida ( )
Date: February 12, 2012 01:16PM

Beautiful stuff.

I question #92. There are different ways that the LDS church slices "community." There are ward members who get care and aid and there are those outside the ward who barely count as people (not in the sense that they are hated but that they are non-existent).

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Posted by: sam ( )
Date: February 12, 2012 01:53PM

OMG, this is so well done. I was not aware of this work. I read through each point and I can relate to each and every point due to my own experiences as a leader and member along with the experiences of so many others. Thanks for posting!

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Posted by: get her done ( )
Date: February 12, 2012 02:58PM

Excellent

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Posted by: Pista ( )
Date: February 12, 2012 03:27PM

59) It dis-fellowships and excommunicates its true prophets.

I don't understand what is meant by this. Are you talking about people who talk to god, or people who try to share the real truth?

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Posted by: Lost ( )
Date: February 14, 2012 04:42PM

Pista Wrote:
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> 59) It dis-fellowships and excommunicates its true
> prophets.
>
> I don't understand what is meant by this. Are you
> talking about people who talk to god, or people
> who try to share the real truth?


The second one, I believe, at least that's my take on it.

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Posted by: moremany ( )
Date: November 21, 2018 04:56PM

Pista Wrote:
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> 59) It dis-fellowships and excommunicates its true
> prophets.
> ... people who talk to God, or people who try to Share the real truth?

TRUE Prophets speak the TRUTH (only!). That's The Difference

There doesn't have to be a difference.

They oft' times can be one in the same.

Those who think they talk to God, probably don't.
Or don't listen-anyway.
Always asking for things.
Protect the Mormon church, missionaries, etc...

*NATURE* - and living/ speaking/ sharing "real 'truth'" might go hand in hand.
So, it's really the knowing [thinking], and those who think they know.
That's why it's good to go to the woods a lot.

M@t
*{Some call God}

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Posted by: Carol Y. ( )
Date: February 14, 2012 04:54PM


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Posted by: nonmoparents ( )
Date: February 14, 2012 07:01PM


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Posted by: YAZMINA K. LOVE ( )
Date: July 26, 2012 01:48AM

I KNOW WITH EVERY FIBER OF MY BEING THAT EVERY THING SAID ON HERE IS ABSOLUTELY TRUE. THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS INFORMATION! PERFECTION!

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Posted by: ambivalent exmo ( )
Date: July 26, 2012 02:06AM

....And there it is.
Thank you so much for posting this.

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Posted by: puff the magic dragon ( )
Date: July 26, 2012 02:20AM

I am definately saving this in my someday file. Someday my husband will listen.

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Posted by: templeendumbed ( )
Date: July 26, 2012 02:34AM

Well done!!!

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Posted by: Don Bagley ( )
Date: July 26, 2012 03:20AM


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Posted by: gladtobeme ( )
Date: July 26, 2012 03:53AM

WOW. Thank you for writing this! *Bookmarks page*

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Posted by: GNPE ( )
Date: July 26, 2012 04:00AM

IDK if this was Specifically Mentioned or not, but:

they're Incredibly Picky about minor 'infractions', but often ignore or minimyze more significant actions (incl. those that do actual Harm to others).

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Posted by: liminal state ( )
Date: July 26, 2012 09:18AM

+ 1 infinitely

All the more proof that Mormonism is more of a syndrome than a religion.

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Posted by: 3X ( )
Date: November 21, 2018 07:50PM

Syndrome is, I think, the most accurate characterization of Mormonism.

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Posted by: get her done ( )
Date: September 05, 2012 12:52AM

Excellent

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Posted by: Youngandfree ( )
Date: September 05, 2012 12:56AM

I love this. Have a cookie

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Posted by: yours_truly ( )
Date: September 05, 2012 01:11AM


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Posted by: AmIDarkNow? ( )
Date: February 19, 2016 01:37PM

The church of 10,0000 excuses!

"We have an excuse we use for that. If you don't like it then you need to pray more and sincerely read the BOM. Otherwise you've lost the spirit and have become a hateful anti-mormon"

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Posted by: hausfrau ( )
Date: February 19, 2016 11:15PM

I'll add:

No sex before marriage (however wise that advice may be, it's taught in a guilt-inducing way and often demoralizing too). And a culture of having large families.
And for good measure, that it has introduced polygamy to the US.

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Posted by: Annon ( )
Date: February 19, 2016 11:57PM

Well done

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Posted by: GNPE ( )
Date: February 20, 2016 12:32AM

are U sure 95 is enough?

Well Said.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: November 19, 2018 11:46PM

Do you know what has changed in the 501 years since Luther nailed his famous theses to the door?

Nowadays no one has the patience to read 95 theses.

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Posted by: My Garments Are Kevlar ( )
Date: November 20, 2018 08:12PM

Is 95 enough?

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: November 20, 2018 08:15PM

Nope.

But a Youtube video would get more "likes."

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Posted by: GNPE ( )
Date: November 21, 2018 08:01PM

The morg leaders 'know' that it will create resentment to make adherence to their practices & beliefs "mandatory", so they employ intimidation - coercion instead, example:

#22: Tithing isn't mandatory for church members.

that's a bit of hyperbole based in the member 'voluntarily' appearing before leaders & requesting temple privileges.

The items relating to family cohesiveness & unity are spot-on however, perhaps understated in their impact to families & individuals.

I don't recall seeing the phrase 'lip service', but it surely belongs there.

Also, I think any sense of proportions in church administration / 'justice' for rank-and-file members is seriously skewed in favor of the org, not individuals (incl. #45).

: suggestions on how to serve the membership (ha!) are rarely taken seriously, it's all about following SL directives...

: the temple marriage ceremony is laughable!

It's almost 100% about 'the church' & not about the couple.

A true wedding can be an inspirational, uplifting event for the couple and their guests of all ages.
Even tho vastly more couples are cohabitating with marriage, it still can be an important social message for those in attendance (devotion, loyalty, fidelity promises, etc.)
Youth who might model the positive aspects of a wedding... Excluded!

: most all decisions of SPs & above are considered & presented in an ultra-legalistic manner as opposed to moral-ethical; their mantra seems to be centered around Support & Protect the church, even if the rank-and-file are ignored or harmed in the process.



Edited 6 time(s). Last edit at 11/21/2018 10:33PM by GNPE.

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