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Lowpriest
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Date: December 10, 2019 07:02PM
My TBM father in law is a good guy. He is really very dedicated to the church but actually seems to care about people. He is very genuine.
Sadly he was diagnosed with cancer. It looks very serious. It's a type with a very low survival rate and he is in his late eighties.
My wife is trying to be brave but you can imagine how it weighs on her. I want to support her but I have a dilemma.
If I parrot all the LDS BS it will seem very hollow and insincere, but if I don't say that stuff she will feel like I don't care. I really do love her and her dad.
I feel like my wife needs to face reality but I don't think that is for me to decide. I am not sure she could handle it anyway. I have been working hard to communicate honestly with her and I worry that even a little LDS comforting talk will set us back.
Thanks for any suggestions.