Date: October 30, 2015 02:20AM
I hate her because he tried to force me to have a relationship with her. I hate her because she tried to replace my mother (who I'm now closer than ever to; we've both left TSCC). She plays grandma with my sister's kids and is generally annoying. She's not my family and I don't want anything to do with her....
But I'm thinking about my wedding in a couple of years, and how if I don't at least let her attend, it's a very real possibility that my father won't come at all.
I keep swinging back and forth between banning her from the wedding and just letting it slide. I'm planning on a very small, intimate wedding and it turns my stomach to think of either situation: her being there, or my father not being there.
I don't want more drama, but I also don't want her to think she's part of my life. Your thoughts, RfM?