Date: November 21, 2015 05:25PM
I've been inactive for about 3-4 months and actually just resigned my membership via email last night. (Woohoo!) But for those three months, and even now, I feel so flakey. I asked to be released from my calling, haven't answered phone calls/ voice mails from visiting teachers, RS president, bishop's secretary, and even made up an excuse as to why I couldn't help set up for a RS party (I was on the committee). I'm normally the type of person that will follow through on something, someone you can depend on. But I feel sort of rude for not answering people's phone calls and voice mails. But honestly I don't know how else to handle it. Isn't this a thing when people break up, instead of actually breaking up in person they just fall off the face of the earth (or so it would seem) So I have been "ghosting" the church but I don't know how else to do it. And it will be so akward to tell someone from the ward that I have actually resigned. I actually feel really good about resigning and my husband is supportive, it's just everything else about it I don't like... I'm so glad we're moving soon.