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scmd
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Date: May 12, 2016 11:48PM
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> And beautiful people marry beautiful people. And
> rich people tend to do the same, all of which
> overlap. Visit an exclusive yacht or country club
> and you'll see. SCMD, you're talking about rich,
> and probably, beautiful people. They may date
> outside their caste, and have affairs also, but
> marry? Only with their type. As children and
> adolescents, they come from similar communities
> and schools, wards, summer camps, country clubs,
> and learn to identify and associate with each
> other. They emit and smell out a kind of
> socio-economic pheromone. Good ones recognize the
> nouveau riche as being not-quite-suitable.
Caffiend, I suspect you're onto something with the "socioeconomic pheromone" theory.and if the younger generation's pheromone-detectors are not sufficiently fine-tuned, the parents clue them in, and for some reason unbeknownst to me, the offspring listen. One guy who married into this clan (who is himself from a very similar social situation) dated my sister fairly seriously for about six months, which is almost an eternity for a returned missionary to date any girl without proposing at BYU. They spoke of marriage, then he took her to meet his parents. Two days after my sister and the guy returned from his parents' home to BYU, he broke up with her. Coincidence? I seriously doubt it. The particular sister of mine is the sweetest, kindest, smartest (she's an engineer but actually has social skills), and most beautiful woman I know other than my wife, but she doesn't come from old money, nor does she come from enough of it..
My dad was a college engineering professor who made a lot more money on the side by patenting optical instruments he developed in cooperation with his ophthalmologist brother. Each of us six (adult) kids will inherit close to two million from my parents, but it was not enough money to propel my sister into her old boyfriend's social set, nor was it old money since my dad earned every dollar himself.
The caste system is alive and well.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 05/13/2016 03:12AM by scmd.