No hotline needed. I've said it all. The Mormons around me lied, manipulated, until they succeeded at ruining my reputation at work through gossip and lies.

I'm out. Nothing matters. It really doesn't. They controlled me from birth and took the only thing I had left. A good helping of hope and positive reputation.

They finally broke m and seem immune to the shattered glass laying around me. Pieces of what everything they did to me means nothing in their "Stepford World."

I've spoke to people all my life only to be told they are the unhealthy ones. But there they sit in money and "Utah fame," They finally ruined me. They won. The battle is done.

All I wanted was to get out of Dodge and live abroad. Dreams died with age and the constant battle for my reputation in 'perfect Utah. All is well. All is well.

Farewell. Drama over with a dramatic lame post. Over and out. Thanks for the great posts here. Amazing people here.

Auf Wiedersehen

I am guessing that means goodbye or good riddance.

"They finally ruined me. They won. The battle is done."
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Who is "they"?----"The Mormons around me lied, manipulated, until they succeeded at ruining my reputation at work through gossip and lies."

These persons appear to be low-lifers, and bottom dwellers.

Also, remember what the famous Dodger's coach said, "It ain't over till its over".

As long as you are able to seek out others, as you have here, it isn't over. You appear to be going through a real downer---however, 'downer's' DO pass when you keep-on keeping-on.

In the mean time, remember, we (on RfM) care. Hold your head up, and continue doing positive things you like to do and which make you feel better.

Best Wishes.

P

And i refuse to say that they won and the battle is done like i used to say and you should not say it either.

If you are out, then you won. Victory isn't always what we may think it is I would dare say.

The losers are the ones paying tithing, plagued with inane callings, and being coached into bigotry and servitude. I take it that isn't you anymore. You won. Go forth and prosper.

Ciao, Adios, and See Ya Later Gator. Good luck and come back soon. We do get where you have been.

Fare the well. Wrote:
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> I'm out. Nothing matters. It really doesn't.

I wholeheartedly disagree.

YOU matter.
They don't.

Forget them.
Screw them.

YOU matter.

Are you telling us that you are killing yourself?

Will you give us one more week?
Let us keep you one more week?

"As God is my witness, as God is my witness they're not going to lick me. I'm going to live through this and when it's all over, I'll never be hungry again. No, nor any of my folk. If I have to lie, steal, cheat or kill. As God is my witness, I'll never be hungry again!"

"Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn."

There is only one way to deal with a controlling narcissist, be it one person or an organization of like people: absence.

absence = victory

Remember what that jackass Holland said, "Don't you dare leave." That's his greatest fear and your greatest weapon. You win, Fare Thee Well.

That's right.

Freedom from oppression is its own reward.

I think you are right, i have tried every method that i can think of to deal with a narcissist and staying the hell away from them is the only solution.

Tschüss

Danke Forest F. John.