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Posted by: cutekitty ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 10:57AM

The new bishop and home teacher came by Sunday, unannounced. I really resent this rude behavior. Were they trying to catch me smoking, drinking, OR having wild sex? I said there is nothing to talk about. I let 'em have it knowing I may never again get a chance to ever get my say so IN...........

I told them JS was a pedophile, sexual pervert, and he made up the bom from 5 other books he copied from. Ethan Smith's 'view of the hebrews', printed 5 years before the bom came about, was directly copied from. You can read the bom all day and night and it will never be more than made up fiction and will never be true. The church even admits the bom is not historical and the boA is not about Abraham. It is made up fiction as well. The church is fake-made up. JS used Masonic rituals to make up temple rituals. There are 8 versions of the first vision after the bom was printed. AND there have been over 3000 changes to the bom. How can it be real if it keeps changing? The church is a cult controlling our minds and lives. I said the internet is killing the church answering any question out there with the stone cold facts of Mormon history. I also said I am ashamed to have been a Moron for 40 years never diving into church history, knowing what I know now.

They left without an argument.


I got a text this morning that they will remove my name from the rolls like I was never a member or went thru the temple. That's all I wanted........

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Posted by: GregS ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 11:00AM

Kitty's got claws!

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Posted by: Eric K ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 11:05AM

Good for you. That had to have felt empowering. Nice to have you here.

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Posted by: Cheryl ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 11:09AM

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Posted by: angela ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 11:11AM

Hear CuteKitty ROAR and claw.

That got those boundary lines etched into their brains for sure.


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Posted by: mrsnotasiplanned ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 11:13AM

Did they have a reply/denial to all you said to them?

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Posted by: cutekitty ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 11:27AM

Oh, yes they did. I failed to mention this.

The bishop- jackass he is- said in his text this morning..."We are sorry to lose you over these questions and misunderstandings. But we will respect your wishes. There are answers for each question, misunderstanding, and issue you have raised, and if you would like to talk to me about them, I am more than happy to address them with you. But if not,....."


MISUNDERSTANDING??? my frilly, white ass they are!!!!!!

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Posted by: GregS ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 11:30AM

The "misunderstanding" was obviously his.

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Posted by: Cheryl ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 11:43AM

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Posted by: Dorothy ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 11:59AM

frilly white ass


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Posted by: captainklutz ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 12:26PM

+10...That one had me laughing

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Posted by: sbg ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 01:18PM

I'm stealing for the next time I need to make a point.

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Posted by: Soft Machine ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 11:20AM

Well done :-D

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Posted by: Dave the Atheist ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 11:32AM

Your name is never removed, just flagged.

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Posted by: yeppers ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 11:33AM

Remember kitty, no matter how much truth you throw at them, it eventually breaks down to feelings.

They will say "put all that aside, and all you need to do is pray to see if the church is true."

Because they got a warm fuzzy feeling, then that's all they need.

Facts are irrelevant.

You can't fight emotions with fact...

Every single argument I have had with anyone TBM, at the end, it comes down to "knowing the church is true through the still small voice".

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Posted by: chuck francisca ( )
Date: November 11, 2017 09:10PM

by Scott Adams, author of the Dilbert comic strip.

I think Mr. Adams would agree with you yugely.

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Posted by: Badassadam1 ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 11:41AM

It is definitely fake. I feel like braveheart right now, FREEEEEDOM!! I don't care how much pain i am in right now at this moment, glad i got to live to see this day.

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Posted by: cutekitty ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 11:53AM

It is nice to hear you say positive things like you are "glad i got to live to see this day."

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Posted by: Badassadam1 ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 01:15PM

I am positive when it matters and this matters. Everything else is just nonsense and dust and air.

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Posted by: Done & Done ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 11:59AM

So cute kitty is really a lioness? That was pretty obvious from the start actually. Such a nice thing to read this morning after following your other posts.

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Posted by: cutekitty ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 12:09PM

I want to beat on my chest like Tarzan and yell 'AHhhhh He AWWWWW!!!!'

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Posted by: Tom Padley ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 01:12PM

Very well done! Both barrels for both assholes. Too bad your stake president and a seventy wasn't there as well. You would have had a chance to reload and fired again.

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Posted by: unbelievable2 ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 01:30PM

You go girl. Congratulations! You showed great courage to cast Stan out of your life and take control. Bravo. I am very proud of you. Find some ex mos in your neighborhood and go celebrate. You have been born again with freedom.

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Posted by: cutekitty ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 01:42PM

Thanks. I had no time to reload. Just ran my trap as fast as I could to get in as much as possible.

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Posted by: Becca ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 04:29PM

You go girl!!! Well done! That must have felt really good.

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Posted by: Aquarius123 ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 05:02PM

Congratulations, cutekitty. You are going to love your newly found freedom.

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Posted by: summer ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 06:17PM

Atta girl! Speaking truth to "power!"

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Posted by: dagny ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 07:12PM

Meow, Me-out!

Well done. You told them like it is - which they deserved showing up unannounced.

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Posted by: Amyjo ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 08:01PM

You did good.

Who knows, you may have planted seeds.

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Posted by: saucie ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 08:15PM

Cutekitty You did it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

that is so wonderful, trust me, you will forever be so

happy that you got out. Be proud of yourself....

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Posted by: cutekitty ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 08:28PM

Happy, I am OFFICIALLY out.

I ran into a used to be TBM, Wednesday. She lives below the boundary line like me, 6 blocks from me, but put her in another ward than me. She gave me an ear full I was not expecting. After quite a while of her venting about TSCC...She invited me over for coffee. I barely had a word to get in edgewise, if you can believe that?

I did tell her I am so ashamed to be such a dumass for 40 years never knowing church history. Being too dam busy to look up things I have recently discovered.

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Posted by: saucie ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 09:18PM

Don't punish yourself for not getting out sooner, you got out and

that's the important thing. When we know better, we do better,..

and you hit the grand slam home run. As time goes bye, you

will remember that you got out and you will still be happy

that you got out, that feeling never goes away, at least it

never has for me. Celebrate !!!!!!!!! I'll have a drink for

you and you have one too!!!!!!

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Posted by: BYU Boner ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 10:44PM

^^^^^Saucie is right on target^^^^^ !!!!!!!

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Posted by: saucie ( )
Date: November 11, 2017 10:38PM

BYU Boner Wrote:
> ^^^^^Saucie is right on target^^^^^ !!!!!!!

Thank you Boner... you are the best.

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Posted by: Boballooie0961 ( )
Date: November 10, 2017 08:52PM

You are not a cute kitty anymore, but a beautiful lioness; hear you roar. You don't mess around with foolish stuff do ya? I've been expecting a visit for awhile now much like you got. I hope I can respond like you did... I'm so proud of you that I could spit!

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Posted by: stellam ( )
Date: November 11, 2017 12:17AM

You kicked @SS!! Standing and Saluting!!!


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Posted by: Mother Who Knows ( )
Date: November 11, 2017 03:03AM

"There are answers to each question...." Right. Then, why didn't the Mormons give you the answers during all those 40 years.

No truthful answers. The Mormons lied to you until the end.

Congratulations, cutekitty!

I had to be very tough with the priesthood leaders, too--meaner and louder than I ever was to anyone else in my life--because the Mormons I dealt with were bullies and liars (Just like JS was). No one abuses my children!

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Posted by: cutekitty ( )
Date: November 11, 2017 09:00AM

Showing up unannounced really honked me off bigtime! They have done this before and I was cordial to them. This time gave me nads to go off on 'em like I did not expect I could do. I try to avoid conflict and confusion and confrontation. The old saying 'contention is of the devil' thingy I try to live by.

I"M FREE!!!! Heehaw!

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Posted by: readwrite ( )
Date: November 13, 2017 09:48AM

Yes, the NERVE to show up unannounced (even after being specified or encouraged to call and make an appointment, like everyone else, as a courtesy, a formality, to see if I'd be home, and available, or not busy).

You did what you had to do - you spoke the truth, and got out! They probably learned more in two minutes than in hundreds of meetings and thousands of hours of church calling (names)/ [mandatory] service, propaganda programs/ classes and activities - no more hijinks, hyperbole, rhetoric, apologies, explanations, excuses and dogma.

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Posted by: itzbeen20 ( )
Date: November 13, 2017 12:51PM

They need to RESPECT YOU— you donot belong to them, they donot pay your bills.
Think Readwrite said it well, you taught them a lot.
The absolute nerve you have to think and talk for yourself!
Contention is what you get when the Devil comes knocking at your door!

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