badass, did you have a good day? Eat lots of food? I wonder if you went to your mom's or somewhere today?
I don't understand ziller. I assume ziller is a guy? in Texas? I am captivated by the posts and try to guess where his head space is? Is he an ex-mo or nevermo?
Ziller is awesome i have never seen him in an argument he is like immune. Spent thanksgiving alone because i cant really drive i had a prk done on my eyes last week and i still see blurry, my father decided to come over and bring me food, him and i are getting better around each other counseling has worked miracles. I can last longer around him without getting angry. He is not the same person now that i grew up with that is for d@mn sure, way more calm since he divorced my mom. I am not really a holiday guy don't like getting manipulated by a calendar. I celebrated enough thanksgivings to last a lifetime.
badass, that is great your dad came over. I am glad to hear you can be around him without getting riled up. You are progressing forward. Good for you! Maybe someday when he sees the light, you two can be friends? Getting divorced does strange things to people. Kinda like leaving TSCC. Big empty hole inside to reflect on...
That is fantastic you two have advanced to a more common ground of tolerating each other. Your dad's thinking of you and not being a TBM son, and your memories of him and being abused might even out in the grand scheme of things and truly, I do believe there can be some type of 'healing' BTW you two. Call it spiritual or emotional, or even mental healing? Something is working???...yea!