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Posted by: GayLayAle ( )
Date: December 01, 2017 08:30PM

Hi everyone! :) Well, it’s been quite a few years since I’ve been here but something told me I should pop in and say hello. Some of you may remember me; others may not. Still many, many others have joined the family since I last posted a few years ago. A lot has been going on in my life in the last decade...lots of difficult health problems and other stuff, but I won’t bore you with the details.

I’m hoping to get back to being as rabidly active on this board as I used to be. This was always a place that felt like home; a place where I didn’t feel judged, and somewhere I could safely talk about things that I can’t otherwise discuss with other people. I can’t say enough about the incredible group of friends I made connections with here...many of whom I’m still in contact with both in person and via social media.

I’m at a point right now where I need a sounding board for stuff, and to rekindle some human connection, as much as is possible in cyberspace (by the by, does anyone still use that word, or am I behind on my net-speak? Oh well.)

Anyhoot, I’m happy to be back, and I hope I don’t end up disappearing again.

Much Love,

GLA

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Posted by: BYU Boner ( )
Date: December 01, 2017 08:32PM

Awesome! Welcome back!

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Posted by: GayLayAle ( )
Date: December 01, 2017 08:35PM

HA!!! Your moniker is absolutely stellar!

GLA

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Posted by: saucie ( )
Date: December 01, 2017 08:36PM

I've been in and out of here for a few years but I remember you..

Welcome back !!!!

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Posted by: GayLayAle ( )
Date: December 01, 2017 08:37PM

Thanks, saucie!! Damn good to be here again.

GLA

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Posted by: donbagley ( )
Date: December 01, 2017 08:39PM

Good to hear from you.

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Posted by: GayLayAle ( )
Date: December 01, 2017 08:42PM

Many thanks, don!

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Posted by: gemini ( )
Date: December 01, 2017 08:46PM

I remember you also. Welcome back!

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Posted by: looking in ( )
Date: December 01, 2017 08:54PM

I remember you too, welcome back!

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Posted by: GayLayAle ( )
Date: December 01, 2017 08:57PM

gemini & looking in!!! So good to see some familiar names here! I remember both of you very well!! Looking forward to reconnecting and dusting off my sardonic, sarcastic, oft-times grossly inappropriate sense of humor. It’s been in dry dock far too long.

ILY!!!

GLA

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Posted by: BYU Boner ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 12:13AM

Fuck yeah! I approve and encourage!

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Posted by: GayLayAle ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 01:52AM

Is it wrong that I think I love you already? LOL

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Posted by: BYU Boner ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 03:37AM

Hell no! There are many types of love. I love my friends. You’re a friend, ergo, I love you, Bro! Besides, a gay lay with ale might be better than attending another Sacrament Meeting :)



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 12/02/2017 03:40AM by BYU Boner.

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Posted by: GayLayAle ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 10:50AM

Awwww! How adorable is that?! And yes, a gay lay with ale (or even better, a gay lay with Mikey-that’s me-) is a truly distinctive and VERY worthwhile experience.

OMG I can’t believe I’m flirting with a (I’m just assuming here) straight guy. I have no shame. Thank Christ. LOL

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Posted by: BYU Boner ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 01:58PM

Straight, temple-married, children, grand children, house in the suburbs, church-goer, old fart, cusser who happens to love genuine people. Who you are is a gift for all of us, GLA!

And, being the earthy Man I am, I’m always UP for laughing and being vulgar. Besides, gay or straight, all guys love their boners! Bro-hugs, wanker!!!

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Posted by: GayLayAle ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 02:01PM

Do you live in Utah, Boney?

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Posted by: BYU Boner ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 02:08PM

Yep, right in the thick of the fuckin’ Morg. Et tu, GayLay?

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Posted by: GayLayAle ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 02:25PM

Yep! Just southwest of the Poinathamou’in Veil in northern Utah County. We should maybe get coffee sometime. I can already tell we would get along famously.

Was that too presumptuous of me to ask a married straight guy on a totally-platonic-man-date?

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Posted by: BYU Boner ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 05:17PM

Hell no! I’d enjoy it!

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Posted by: GayLayAle ( )
Date: December 03, 2017 07:10PM

I have a platonic man-date with a Boner!!! That’s not something that happens every day!

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Posted by: summer ( )
Date: December 01, 2017 11:28PM

Great to have you back, GLA!

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Posted by: dagny ( )
Date: December 01, 2017 11:35PM

I remember you and Flattop too.

Welcome back!

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Posted by: Tevai ( )
Date: December 01, 2017 11:43PM

I remember you!

Welcome back, GLA!!

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Posted by: GayLayAle ( )
Date: December 01, 2017 11:59PM

Thanks, kids!! I’m so glad that so many people I regularly chatted with here are still active on the board! I didn’t realize it has been 5 years since I was really active here, and that’s faaaaaar too long.

My triscuit is in desperate need of some RfM cheese slices!!

GLA

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Posted by: cutekitty ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 04:32AM

Hey GayLayAle,

I am new here (5 months out). I am the whiniest poster here. I am a lost soul these days. I have no physical friends anymore. I have a huge hole in my being from lied to for 40 years. I found RfM back in June this year. What a huge blessing this site has been for me learning I am not the only one going thru recovery from the morg./cult BS we were dealt.

My only friends are cyber friends here who understand me somewhat. We all share a void in our lives from leaving TSCC. Many have moved on and sound like they have filled the void in their lives with other meaningful things. I am still looking for other meaningful things...

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Date: December 02, 2017 05:26AM


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Posted by: GayLayAle ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 10:56AM

Cutekitty! Don’t knock yaself, doll! First of all, you’re here, which means you’re already headed in a wonderful direction. Second, never put yourself down because you think you’re “whiny”. The Morg has repeatedly and very painfully jabbed us all in our emotional naughty places, and that takes its toll! Never apologize for venting emotions or fears or frustrations. ‘Tain’t whining. You’re just giving your narrative. *HUGS!!*

GLA

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Posted by: Aquarius123 ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 02:13AM

(((GLA))))
Welcome back!! Yaaay, you're here!!

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Posted by: Mother Who Knows ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 02:23AM

I remember you, too. Welcome back! A lot of us are still here, a few have left (Deanie, the dreaded single adult, and Flattop SF), and there are some newbies (another probably outdated netspeak word) here. I always enjoyed your humor! :)

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Posted by: Soft Machine ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 02:48AM

Wow, lovely to see you Gay Lay Ale.

Looking forward to reading your take on things, which I always found interesting.

All the best to you

Tom in Paris

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Posted by: Becca ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 10:54AM

Lovely to see you again. I'll come out of the woodwork to say hi to you. ;-)

(I've been away a little while and hiding under a rock..)

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Posted by: GayLayAle ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 11:03AM

...should be “rocking” (get it? I made a funny. Heh!) is a giant honking gorgeous diamond the size of my enormous head. Because you’re worth exponentially more than any diamond on earth.

GLA

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Posted by: Becca ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 11:05AM

Awwweee.. you have such a way with words! You sure know how to charm your way back here you little devil you..

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Posted by: GayLayAle ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 11:10AM

*adjusts horns* Plus, I’m like, way cuter than Lucie could ever dream of being. The most beautiful fallen angel, my gay ass. I could out-evil that little bitch any day of the week.

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Posted by: ziller ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 11:28AM

IN ~ on GayLayAle thred ~

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Posted by: GayLayAle ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 11:32AM

Ziller! How the feck are ya?

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Posted by: cl2 ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 03:03PM


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Posted by: matt ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 05:24PM

Hi!

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Posted by: Happy_Heretic ( )
Date: December 02, 2017 05:55PM

I wondered where you wandered off too.


HH =)

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Posted by: GayLayAle ( )
Date: December 03, 2017 04:46AM

(((cl2))) (((matt))) (((HH))) !!!!!

How are you guys??

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Posted by: knotheadusc ( )
Date: December 03, 2017 07:44AM

Welcome back!

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Posted by: Devoted Exmo ( )
Date: December 03, 2017 12:00PM

Good to "see" you again!

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Posted by: Susan I/S ( )
Date: December 03, 2017 04:38PM


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Posted by: GayLayAle ( )
Date: December 03, 2017 07:12PM

Thanks for allowing me back into the fold!! I love your guts!!!
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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