Posted by:
adamisfree2006
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Date: December 22, 2017 11:47AM
We have been officially out almost 12 years. This year has been the year of changes for my wife and I. We have had several close friends pass away causing us to reevaluate our life and priorities. In July I decided to resign from my job due to the progression of my Ménière's disease. I have had a very successful 28 year run and we are in a good place financially which allows me to do something that I can do well into retirement. We also decided to take a year or two off and live overseas to travel while we are in our early 50's and healthy. Unfortunately life threw us another curve ball. My wife's father was diagnosed with terminal cancer and given a few months to live. So we have just sold our home, placed everything in storage and moved to St George Utah so we can help care of him. Again we are fortunate to be in a good financial place to be able to do this. So, my FIL has always handled finances so my MIL knows nothing about their bills. My poor wife is not only caring for her father (she is a nurse) but also must wade through the stacks of unpaid bills and get the finances under control. So last night she tearfully tells me how her mother will lose the house once dad dies because of the loss of Social Security income. Sadly, despite the poverty they live in they continue to give money to the LD$ church. My wife is so angry and is unsure what she will say when she finally meets their bishop. I am angry for her and can see the sadness she feels. Where is the goddammed church when my in laws need them? Nowhere to be seen but willing to take his f-ing money. Also, any exmos in St George wanting to have a drink we would love to meetup sometime. Not sure how long we will be here. Thanks for letting me vent.