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Amyjo
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Date: June 30, 2018 06:00PM
Today following worship services, we had a traditional kiddush following the meeting. That's like a lunch/brunch affair - with food laid out like a buffet for attendees to eat following services.
There is one woman who comes each week who is mentally disabled - but otherwise not usually offensive.
Well today she made a food grab like nothing I had seen before. She normally piles her plate with bagels and cookies. Because she's thin as a rail, I've wondered where all that food goes each week? Well today I need wonder no more.
She keeps a large handbag with her, and I watched as she dumped plateloads of food into her large bag. But she didn't stop with the bagels or the cookies.
Next thing I'm watching is she's using her left hand like a claw and grabbing up the egg salad from the food table with her open hand! From there, instead of transferring it from the table to her plate to go sit down and eat it like the rest of us do (while using a food utensil,) she's using her hand to pile it into her purse with the rest of her goodies. I was appalled.
People none the wiser were still going to that food table and helping themselves to what was there, including the egg salad.
I asked the women at my table what was protocol regarding that horrible bad mannerism of this seemingly autistic woman who comes week after week doing the same thing?
They were as appalled as I was. But said the protocol was to do nothing. She would not be banned or barred. The caterers or those eating from the edibles would remain none the wiser by our silence. Why? Because it is Jewish to not condemn or remove the disabled from their midst.
If this had happened @ TSCC, such an event would be ratified swiftly by asking the offender to cease and desist. In the event that message didn't get through, they'd be asked to leave and not return for disrupting the services. (Also Messianic would do this to such a visitor, as would TSCC.)
But not the Jewish.
I learned something new today. Was it kosher? Absolutely not. Is it hygienic? Obviously a gross failure. But it is the charitable thing to do. The higher observance.
ETA: I did however avoid the egg salad.
Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 06/30/2018 06:02PM by Amyjo.