Brother Of Jerry Wrote:
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> Last week poster koriwhore had a thread with a sub
> line similar to what I posted above. I had to
> shorten it a bit to get my subject line to fit.
>
> A follow on thread, also by koriwhore, had sub
> line "What are you trying to gain".
>
https://www.exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,2134271>
>
> I made the following statement toward the end of
> thread:
>
> > BTW, your questions are not particularly honest
> or direct. They are often misleading and loaded,
> designed to antagonize.
>
> To which koriwhore responded:
>
> How?
> I honestly want to know how anybody sings the
> praises of a man who is a well kniwn child rapist
> who clearly abused his obscene amount of power
> over his followers to cuckold his followers by
> raping their wives and teenage daughters.
>
>
> OK, fair enough. Just saying they were misleading
> and loaded questions, without giving any
> specifics, is not particularly helpful. So here
> are my specific problems with the questions.
>
>
> "Missionaries lied through their GD teeth..."
> Lied and liar get thrown around a lot here. Just
> because a statement is false does not make the
> person stating it a liar. They have to know it is
> false, and deliberately use the false statement to
> mislead or otherwise manipulate. That idea was
> already dissected in the thread linked above, so I
> will just leave it at that. What they were saying
> was false. You don't know that they were lying.
They lied when they said God commanded Joseph and Brigham to marry other men's wives. When I asked them where they read that, they refused to answer, because they didn't read it, they made it up. That's a lie. And they lie by omission every day they peddle the false narrative that Joseph only had one wife, Emma, which the Mormon church lied to me about for the first 40 years of my life and for the 5 generations before me, by omitting that important disclosure. That's fraud if you do that on a house sale, it voids the contract.
>
> "wife swapping..."
> Besides being a phrase that screams "1970s", wife
> swapping is understood to be an arrangement
> between couples where they willing exchange
> partners. We have no evidence that either Emma,
> nor the spouses of the women JS pursued were aware
> of, approved of, or participated in exchanging
> partners. What he did was adultery, seduction,
> even sexual predation. It was not "wife swapping".
> You used the phrase to incite and inflame and
> shame, not to accurately convey information.
They abused their authority to share with their follower's wives, aka, wife swapping or more accurately, cuckolding.
>
> "rape."
> When we see the word "rape" without qualifiers,
> the assumption is you are talking about violent,
> or at least forced sexual assault. There is no
> evidence that JS ever raped anyone in that sense.
> He may have, but I am not aware of any statements
> or other proof that he ever did anything other
> than verbally pressure women with that angel with
> a flaming sword hokum. I doubt that would meet the
> legal definition of rape.
>
Again, they abused their authority to have sex with their follower's wives and teenage daughters.
"Rape is a type of sexual assault usually involving sexual intercourse or other forms of sexual penetration carried out against a person without that person's consent. The act may be carried out by physical force, coercion, abuse of authority, or against a person who is incapable of giving valid consent, such as one who is unconscious, incapacitated, has an intellectual disability or is below the legal age of consent."
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/RapeI'd say Joseph and Brigham's sexual abuse of their follower's wives and teenage daughters qualifies as rape by abuse of authority and below the age of consent.
> Statutory rape is a different crime, with
> different punishments, and it may not have even
> been on the books in JS's day. In any case, it is
> considered a separate and less serious crime. If
> someone commits a sexual assault against a minor,
> they would normally be charged with sexual
> assault, not statutory rape, it being the more
> serious charge. A prosecutor would go with the
> lesser charge if she did not think it was possible
> to get a conviction on the more serious charge.
>
> So, statutory rape and rape are not the same
> crime. You routinely call JS a rapist in spite of
> the fact that there is no evidence that he raped
> anyone. You repeatedly call him a rapist to incite
> and inflame. Calling him a statutory rapist (which
> he was was, at least ethically, if not technically
> if the laws were not yet on the books) doesn't
> have the same inflammatory zing.
Here we have RfM's rape apologist. That's it. Make excuses for child rape. It makes you sound like a devotee of Warren Jeffs.
> "pedophile"
> This is a charge you level at JS on a constant
> basis. That is sexual attraction to pre-pubescent
> children. There is no evidence of that either.
> Hardly anybody knows the words for sexual
> attraction to mid to late teens (ephebophilia) or
> earlier post-pubescent teens (hebephilia) (my
> spell checker doesn't recognize either word), so I
> suppose you can claim a little slack on that. But
> the definition of pedophile still stands, and
> there is no evidence he pursued prepubescent
> children.
splitting hairs.
> "cuckold his followers by raping their wives and
> teenage daughters".
> You frequently refer to raping other men's wives.
> Women tend to get cranky when their primary
> defining characteristic is stated as being the
> property of a man. True, the traditional
> European/Christian wedding ceremony is a transfer
> of ownership of a woman from her father to her
> husband, a tradition finally showing signs of
> rigor mortis. But your phrase above implies that
> the real crime is against the husbands and
> fathers. Really?
I have empathy for the victims, including the husbands, like Henry Jacobs, who was sent packing for an overseas mission 8 times as both JS and BY had their way with his wife and finally fathered a child with her. Apparently you have zero empathy for all these victims.
> And Finally, "sing praises to a pedophile and
> rapist..."
> They are singing praises to what is in their view
> the prophet of The Restoration. Leaving aside that
> there is no evidence he was either a pedophile or
> rapist, they are either not aware that he was a
> sexual predator or they don't believe the
> accusation. So, they are not singing praises to
> such a person. As with your claim that they lied
> through their teeth, intent matters here. Their
> intent is not to sing praises to a pedophile and
> rapist.
>
There's plenty of evidence. Have you read In Sacred Loneliness or Insider's View of Mormon Origins? I find them compelling. I don't care what they believe, they're still singing the praises of somebody who's worse than Warren Jeffs. You sound like somebody defending the follower's of Warren Jeffs, who sing his praises while he rots in jail on child rape convictions. WHo cares what they believe? They're fucking delusional!
>
>
> So, that's why I think your questions are not
> "honest questions", as you repeatedly claim. Your
> claims about JS are hyperbolic in the extreme, if
> not downright lies. "JS was a sexual predator who
> slept with women, both single and married, and in
> some cases girls as young as early teens". That
> would be a true statement, not to mention not
> sexist. "Pedophile raping other men's wives and
> daughters" is not supported by evidence, and is at
> least marginally sexist.
>
Yeah it is an honest question. I really want to know how people can continue singing his praises, knowing he 'married' his follower's wives and teenage daughters as young as 14, when there's no law that was ever written legalizing such behavior, but plenty of laws and commandments condemning it as adultery. So knowing this, why sing the guy's praises?
>
> Other people in the previous thread have already
> disagreed with your claim that your questioning is
> "the Socratic Method" to try to educate Mormons.
> They made good points. I see such inflammatory and
> misleading "questions" as basically cyberbullying.
> That makes me and apparently a fair number of
> other people uncomfortable. I'm no fan of Mormons
> or their brainwashed missionary minions, but
> bullying is still wrong, no matter who does it.
> Golden Rule and all that.
> Then you bring the transcripts of these attacks
> here and drop them on the electronic living room
> carpet like a cat dragging in a dead mouse,
> expecting praise and admiration. Ummmm.
>
>
> Calling these attacks "the Socratic method" is
> rather like calling an arson attack on a grocery
> store "cooking".
>
>
"The Socratic Method, also can be known as maieutics, method of elenchus, elenctic method, or Socratic debate, is a form of cooperative argumentative dialogue between individuals, based on asking and answering questions to stimulate critical thinking and to draw out ideas and underlying presumptions."
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Socratic_methodMe asking thought provoking questions of Mormon representatives, and not settling for cliches and lies, meets that definition.