Posted by:
exminion
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Date: August 14, 2018 04:45AM
My father was a movie-star handsome, university-professor intelligent man in a business suit and tie. I loved and respected him so much, that all he had to do is give me a disappointed look, and I would be heartbroken. I could ask him any question, and he knew the answer. (This was before Al Gore invented the internet) Dad was a teacher at heart, and taught many skills. He was a serious man, and not into anything as unsophisticated as cookies and crepe paper in a church gym. He was very undemonstrative, and those who didn't know him thought he was intimidating.
Just like everything else in the Mormon church, one size does NOT fit all. Yes, my father was bored and uncomfortable, and one time we were on our way to the Daddy daughter dance, and he said, "Let's go get an ice cream soda, instead," and we walked around the University campus, afterwards, and he showed me his office and classrooms. That was very special.
Every year, our wards had the Daddy-daughter night, and the Scout Mother-son banquet, and the father-son campout. I don't know if they dropped the daddy-daughter night after correlation.
My children's school had a mother-son and a daddy-daughter dinner, every other year. They had to rename the "daddy" to "special guy," because of all the divorces in the district. The mother-son dinner remained the same.
When I got divorced, my father substituted for "daddy," and joined in with my kids. He was an incredible grandpa, and taught my children all the things he taught me. My children, now adults, said that he was more like their REAL father.