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Date: September 11, 2018 12:47AM
Lot's Wife Wrote:
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> There are many athletes who have in the past taken a
> stand on racial issues, for instance, and looked
> bad to (many, not all) observers at the time only
> to become recognized over time for having
> contributed to social progress.
Agreed.
It takes courage to be among the first to make a stand. Easier to jump on the bandwagon after the fact. But still, some of us aren't trailblazers; however, we can be partners and cheerleaders along the path.
>... while I am uncomfortable with what Williams did at Flushing Meadows, given her experience in the sport I wouldn't bet against her accusations quite yet.
Yes, even those on her side are saying that it would be better to separate the two issues; what was occurring in the match, and the issues in the sport (i.e., sexism).
Easy to say though. In the heat of the moment (which passes so quickly) more difficult. I have read that Serena is intense, as is the case with most elite athletes. Without that drive they would likely not be at the top of their game, literally. Given her age, which is against her in her sport (not surprising nor unique) and the fact that it was the US Open (her home country) and her intense drive to win it's easy to see why she would be highly strung at the time. She must have already been anxious after losing the first set. Then she got a violation call for something that the refs usually let go (plus she apparently didn't see her coach and is known to never cheat anyway). I think it's fairly uncharacteristic of her to lose control. And, as I said, some of the knowledgeable commentators say no top player would ever knowingly, willfully, give cause for the third violation. Serena looked so shocked like she totally did not realize she had two already (apparently misunderstanding and thinking the ref had recalled the first penalty).
So I can understand her approach, somewhat. Away from the heat of the moment, of course it's obvious that it's better to keep issues arising during play separate from off-court campaigns against injustices. I do believe she and others have spoken up previously against sexism, recently in her case (re the French kerfluffle about her dress choice there - and ha, the French can talk - they have often pushed the frontier of fashion). So it's not like out of the blue Serena slyly switched to a topic she had never before broached just to put herself in a better light.
In terms of the unfortunate match, it's well accepted that coaching from the sidelines (not allowed) "always happens". Many tennis experts are saying the ref could have given Serena a "soft" warning rather than that first penalty that led to the unfortunate downhill slide from there. Also, apparently the ref, Ramos, has not given the same penalty to any male player for the same transgression (i.e., potential sexism/favouritism).
Billy Jean King, tennis icon, stated that she sees it as sexism. Ironically, the match was at the Billy Jean King stadium. And BJK knows something about suffering discrimination.
It leads to a larger discussion of how women are often viewed negatively where men are admired for doing/saying the same thing. For instance, if a woman speaks up she is "mouthy" (negative). If a man does so, he is "assertive" (admirable).
Back to the match, it seems that what is tolerated from men is not so much from females. Specifically re Serena, people are asking why the ref had to influence the game/match so much. Usually they try to de-escalate a situation. That is what leads to the unknowable: would Osaka still have won? If so, a sweeter victory for her. If so, at least Serena could have gone down fighting (for herself, not against the ref).
The standard should be what is right vs wrong, not male vs female.
Better to be strategic though. Play through adversity, from whatever source. Address wrongs after the game. Justified personal criticism will derail the issue.
Be right. Be seen to be right.
I hope good things come for Serena out of this and for other players and for the sport.