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Date: November 04, 2018 02:56PM
Mr. Russell M Nelson (address line 1)
LDS Church (address line 2 )
Salt Lake City, Utah October 27, 2018
Subject: Healing a broken family
I am the victim of a vicious, deceitful divorce that was Knowingly ratified, condoned, & excused by LDS leaders. I am asking your interest & help to find & invoke a respectful, Christ-Like resolution to this sordid situation.
If you would personally read up the background on this, I’d be glad to visit you in your office. About 1 hour’s reading will be needed to understand the facts of this matter, 20 minutes for the essentials.
Facts:
• There was no suggestion, no claim of any adultery or abuse in our family or the divorce.
• (name’s ) written complaint was that I stopped going to church.
I am hoping my family is important enough for your personal attention because other LDS leaders have either chosen not to be involved or failed. My family, my children, & (former wife) mean Everything to me, as does living the basics of Christ-Like living (I’m NOT claiming perfection!!)
Summary: (Wife’s) financial submissions were wildly false to her advantage, she understated her income & over-stated household expenses. The $ total of her False misrepresentations amounts to about $2,000 per month. Other statements prevented my from having attorney assistance to present the facts of the matter to the court.
I was seriously depressed as well as disadvantaged by this & unable to represent myself, I was hospitalized several times with life-threatening depression.
We can discuss how the LDS church KNOWINGLY Approved, Ratified, Condoned, Excused, Sanctioned, Ignored my now former wife’s (well documented, by the way) Hatred & Lies submitted to court (in sworn statements) in order to falsify her divorce, her greediness in wanting 100% of the (community property) equity in our home (most of which was from my father’s inheritance). Then, on to discussing an equitable resolution of this sordid affair.\
After she submitted her False court documents, After our bishop saw them & acknowledged they were false, she was awarded a ‘Temple Recommend’, signaling everyone including our 9 children that the LDS church approved her actions. I understand that her ‘temple privileges’ continue to today, in spite of the above.
I would like to personally tell you that I showed her statements to our Bishop, (bishop’s name) , and to Stake President(s); (Bishop) agreed with me that they were False/Misleading, but he IMMEDIATELY began to fabricate excuses for her, refusing to place or even suggest any responsibility to her…
In other words, there is no reasonable alternative possibility or conclusion other than the LDS church was complicit with her in a deceitful, vicious, and greedy divorce.
In the (17, nearly 18) years since this sordid divorce, I have continually if not constantly:
A) Admitted, not denied my mistakes & challenges.
B) Asked that Love (Honesty, Kindness) be our First Priority
C) Pleaded for Repentance & Forgiving, from all, for all. Response: NOTHING
I don’t expect you to fully understand how painful all of this is for me, but perhaps you can imagine what it’s like to be shunned by family while calling for Repentance & Forgiving.
At the Same Time/visit, I will tell you of my continuing Love for (name), my fond memories of the experiences & children we have shared; My love for her doesn’t change because of past events, that’s because my love for her (others?) starts & ends with My Feelings, My inner desires & affection; my sincere desires to be the Best example to all involved, our children, (wife), & others…
I’m reasonably certain that all (name) will listen to & heed your counsel & advice on this matt er, she (sometimes) appears to obey the teachings of the LDS church…
“With Repentance & Forgiving, we’ll all be doing the Right Thing;
Right for today.
Right for the future.”
Please contact me at:
Sincerely, (my contact information)
My comments:
AS the church has allowed this to happen & continue
- (wife) had the choice of doing an honest divorce, splitting the property; she choose not to.
- What about Honesty & Kindness? Are they somehow exempted in cases of divorce?
- Isn’t this setting a new low of what is allowable from a Temple-Recommend holder?
- What about a church member using ‘religion’ as a Wedge against another family member?