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Date: January 13, 2019 09:13AM
A while back, a visiting area authority seventy spoke at our stake conference. He has since been promoted to a general authority seventy and was recently excommunicated. His name is not important for my topic, and I feel a little guilty drawing attention to him.
During his instructional session with stake priesthood leadership, he explained how none of us should have beards or mustaches. He said that we should model our behavior and appearance after the current church leadership. He told a couple of stories about stake leaders in other parts of his area who showed great faith by removing their facial hair when asked to do so.
Moreover, he said that this was not a policy that we would find in Handbook 1 or Handbook 2, nor would we find it on the church website. We would never expect to hear church leaders teach this doctrine from general conference and we would not expect to read about it in the Ensign magazine. He said, "Instead, the twelve send out guys like me to teach local leaders what they should do in settings like this." (It's been a while, so my quote may not be perfect, but it is close.)
As one might expect with a group of stake and ward leaders, the level of compliance was nearly perfect. By the next Sunday, men who I had never seen without facial hair were clean shaven. Years later, most of them are still without beard or mustache.
So, who give a rip, right?
I started thinking about this because of recent posts to this board asking if men in the church were allowed to wear beards. In my area, many of the "young" men (let's say those under the age of 40) have beards. I would estimate one of every five to ten have some sort of facial hair. It would seem that the younger generation never go the news.
However, since this was never church policy, who can say? It was only communicated to our stake as un-official council from a church leader, "...to model the appearance of general authorities..." Since then, I have seen church videos such as the "I am a Mormon" fiasco that showed guys in beards as a way of showing that the church loves and accepts people of all appearances.
Is this another case of the church changing its policy without admitting it ("We have always been at war with Eurasia") or is it a case of attracting people by saying that the church accepts you as you are, but in reality if plans to get you entangled and then force you to conform later, once you are in so deep that you cannot resist? A more charitable view is that the right hand does not know the left hand and that guys like the former area authority seventy are just making stuff up that makes sense to them. Hello prophesy.
In my own case, I joined the Mormon church based on the missionary discussions, and I do not recall the issue of facial hair being discussed. I also do not remember talking about black people of African descent not getting the priesthood. The missionaries did not tell me that the first vision actually had multiple, contradictory accounts, none of which were made until years after the event allegedly occurred. I was not told that I would be expected to take an oath to allow myself to be murdered while wearing a dress, fig leaf, bakers hat, and my brandy spanky new long magic underwear. I guess it slipped their mind. Or, were they concerned about giving me milk before meat? Maybe they thought that they would take me as I am and fix me later.
In any case, the situation raises another serious question. Why does anyone let another group of men tell them that they can or cannot grow a beard? Ok, I know that I live in the United States and that things are different around the world, but do we not take great pride in our liberty? Do we not talk about a long history of giving dictators the finger? What happened, did we lose some vital part of our anatomy that is associated with being an adult?
I have no particular training about psychology, but I suspect that when a group wants to control people, getting them to abide by a bunch of nit picky tiny rules is the way to do it. They need to make sure that the rules do not affect everyone, such as beards for men and ear piercing for women. Not all men have or want facial hair, and not all women want piercings. That way, most people do not care about a rule, because it does not affect them. Once the group is accustomed to tolerating stupid picky rules, the leaders can make rules that affect the children of same-sex couples. If the leader can get the group to go along with anything, he can get the group to go along with everything. Like I said, this is just a guess.
By taking the unofficial approach, church leaders can more easily deny that the rule in question was actually something that the church supported. In cases when documentation contradicts denial, current church leaders can attribute the rules to conditions related to leaders that only existed in the past. (Read the church essay about priesthood.) They can say, "It's in the past." (Gordon Hinkley)
I suspect that unofficial church rules lead to better manipulation of church members by leaders.
Thoughts?