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Date: January 14, 2019 04:00PM
My response to the comments above:
1) I was an active Mormon for about 10 years, served a mission, spent all those years (except mission years) in Young Adult and Single's Wards, and I "NEVER" one time heard anyone say "You have a right to a female because of your maleness."
2) Never one time, did I hear "You have a right to a female, because you hold the Priesthood". Never...once.
3) In the Young Adult Wards and Single Wards I attended, the males always outnumbered the females by at least 10% or more. I know, I counted. I counted the actives, and the active males always outnumbered the active females.
4) I DID hear many times as a young Mormon convert at 18 and 19 years old: "if you serve a mission, and honor your priesthood, and stay morally worthy, GOD WILL SEND YOU a beautiful woman to take to the Temple!!!"
God was like a "Big Pimp" Who "sent" beautiful women to men as a "reward" for being a "faithful priesthood holder" (i.e. meeting attender, tithe payer).
5) NEVER (not "one" time) did I hear bishops or others "blame the women" because they were not married. I heard perhaps 50 times the males being blamed for "not doing your duty" and taking a Mormon woman to the Temple. _________NEVER ONE TIME_________ did I ever hear "the women are to be blamed" or "blame the women". Never happened. In the Wards I was in (YA and SA) the men were blamed, shamed, and lamed, often, for "not doing your duty". I never heard one time the women blamed for anything.
6) The single Mormon males I knew could be put into three categories:
First: Sexist immoral Cauvinist. These were the most popular men among the Mormon women, by far. Their attitude towards women was that women were property, and about as intelligent as retarded children. These men always married, in the Temple, to a young gorgeous Mormon women much younger than they. These active Priesthood-holders had MASSIVE amounts of sex before their missions, and after their missions, as single active Mormon males. Alpha Males.
Second: Ordinary Mormon men. Beta Males.
Third: Incels (involuntary celibates). Yes, these men were "promised" that if they went on missions, paid their tithing faithfully, and stayed morally clean, God would "send them a beautiful woman" to take to the Temple. They competed with Alpha Males and Beta Males, and always "lost". The only women available for them to marry were women that no man wanted. No, most of these men were NOT fat or ugly. They simply "lost" the competition, because half of the beautiful girls married or were the concubines of rich married Gentile men. Yes, after the age of about 30 or so, many of these men became "bitter"; often because Mormon women would not only reject them but often "play mind games" with them. That leads to bitterness. Omega Males.
7) My observations of single Mormons PROVED to me time and time again, than being "morally worthy" had _________________NOTHING______________ to do with if beautiful Mormon women were attracted to you, or wanted to marry you. The MAIN factors of Mormon women choosing a mate were:
First*Status/wealth/potential wealth and status of the male.
Second*Looks and personality of the male.
Third*Status in the Church (i.e. RM, status of family, etc.)
For half of the beautiful Mormon women, they married wealthy Gentile men who smoked and drank. So, being an "RM" was not very impressive to them, because they married (or became concubines of) wealthy/affluent Gentile men.
I "never" heard the women blamed for anything. Even if they got pregnant out of wedlock, and named the kid after the man or boy who got them pregnant, Mormon women were always presented as perfect, innocent, and incapable of willful sin.