Posted by:
catnip
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Date: January 17, 2019 05:45PM
On the positive side - he is home, he is on dialysis, he feels better.
On the scary side - he is unemployed and medically fragile right now. He has no income. If he files for disability, there is no guarantee that he will get it, and it takes 6+ months to get a decision. So who supports him in the meantime?
Yeah. Like I said, it's scary.
His father (with whom I have not had any communication in decades) has already helped him with a money problem some time back, and told him, "It isn't going to happen again, so don't ask." How's that for a great guy?
The same guy who would never take care of his infant son, never changed a diaper, never took him to doctors or day care, and yet bullied and intimidated me into giving him custody when we divorced. The same guy who told me,"Don't even think about going to an attorney. I'll know, even if you only go once. I have eyes everywhere." I was in a pretty fragile place myself just then, and very much afraid of him.
My blood pressure has been through the roof for this past week, though getting more stable now that I'm paying more attention to it.
I sometimes wish I still had faith. I would like to believe that somebody who has Cosmic Clout is on my side.
Thank you all, for your care and your support.