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Mother Who Knows
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Date: January 19, 2019 04:47AM
Those mission nightmares sound horrible! (So does a mission. I'm glad I didn't go.)
I dream that I'm back at BYU, only now, at my present age, and wearing whatever I'm wearing to sleep in. I always wear cute nightwear, because of dreams like this. I dream I'm at a wedding or party, or giving a presentation at work, unprepared, always in my jammies!
The recurring BYU dream was that I'm not prepared for a religion test, and it's an essay test, and I'm trying to squeak by, as I often did, by drawing on previous knowledge, or by using common sense--but religion was the subject that was un-relatable to any other knowledge, and did not make sense. I was failing, and the consequence of failing was having to take the class all over again. Yeah, it was the same "stuck" feeling, like in that never-ending circular maze.
My daughter had a recurring nightmare, when we were TBM, and several years after we left. The Mormon neighbors had all turned into zombies, and were chasing her down the street. She would run into our house, and lock the doors, but they were clawing at the windows, their faces mashed on the windowpanes. I'm sure she was traumatized by the Mormon threats taught in Primary, and the unexpected, door-banging, late-night visits from Mormon neighbors, harassing us, when we became inactive.
I have a PTSD dream, which is becoming less frequent. I dream that I have a vague, but scary nightmare. I wake up (in reality I'm still dreaming all of this). I'm very relieved that it's just a nightmare. Sometimes, I dream that I go downstairs to check on the children, and everything is OK, so I get back into bed, and close my eyes, but my Wife-beater ex-husband has been there waiting for me, and he is on top of me, strangling me, and I scream as loud as I can. The sound of my screaming wakes me up. Oh yeah, the screaming is REAL, and it used to freak out my children!