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The Voice of Reason
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Date: April 25, 2019 11:15AM
I cut my sister off three years ago so I would like to add to this. For your situation I would not cut her off. I would keep things light and friendly and put up boundaries and see how she reacts. Then go from there.
I cut off my sister because she was abusive. I will link the two related threads that I posted here three years ago.
I has been three years now, and I think I made the right the right decision for my sanity. I went for 3 months of counselling because she was abusive for several years and worn me down. She was extremely manipulative.
Anyhow three years later I feel better but I feel my heart strings pull sometimes that I should try and have relationship with her, and that if I explain to her how she hurts people she will understand and change.
However, I know she will not. Therefore, I stay away. If you read these threads that I linked you will see that cutting family off is required sometimes but it is rough. People on this board were very helpful.
Best wishes.
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