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happycamper1
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Date: May 30, 2019 04:25PM
Now, that I feel like I have lost my virginity for the second time (first time having sex after a divorce), I am starting to see things a little better. First, I think, in many ways, no sex before marriage is bad for relationships. On my wedding night (I was a virgin) my husband was not enthusiastic about sex. I had to drag him to the bed (no, he is not gay). He never liked sex, well, with me. As someone in my former post guessed, he is a narcissistic and cannot have any type of intimacy (sexual,emotional, etc). If we had had a sexual relationship before marriage, his sexual habits would have been a HUGE red flag. I don't think I will do any more one night stands (I am still seeing the guy,though, I had sex with on the first date). Guess my question is now: how do you leave the church's culture and support system? I feel like I am about to be shunned and leave everything and everyone I know.