Posted by:
exminion
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Date: July 08, 2019 01:16AM
Welcome to RFM, tenaciousdeb.
I, too, am a divorced mother, a working mother, a woman without the priesthood in the home, and I raised my children in a "broken home." Yes, there is a stigma that Mormons put on divorced women. My children were taught in Primary, that because their father and I weren't married in the temple, that our family would "pass by each other as strangers" in the hereafter, and would be alone forever. This upset my children terribly. The Mormons take Heaven away from people!
The current church president (The Prophet) Russ Nelson says, outright, that he doesn't believe in unconditional love. He goes even further, by saying, "Unconditional love is anti-Christ." This is a direct quote. I believe, as other Christians believe, that God loves us ALL. "God is Love." I believe Mormonism is God-less.
Mormons negate Christ's Atonement, by saying that all are not saved. They believe that only a few people will be saved, "through OBEDIENCE to the laws and ordinances of The Gospel (meaning, the Mormon church." This is a quote from the Mormon Articles of Faith. One error or glitch in your life, such as getting a divorce, refusing to go on a mission, not being able to pay tithing, getting a tattoo, not getting married in the temple, and you are judged as being imperfect, not obedient, and "following the path of Satan". What a depressing religion.
A lot of people have left because of Mormon hatred towards women, gays, other races, and other religions, (it's all in their scriptures). I added onto those reasons, and left because the Mormon leaders were abusing my children. It was after I left, that I found out that the abuse was only the tip of the iceberg. I would have left sooner, if I had known any of the many secrets the Mormons are keeping. I have been through the temple, and have attended temple marriages, and that ridiculous hoax would definitely have made me leave.
The more you learn about the Mormon church, the more you will realize that leaving was the right thing to do.
The Mormon church is a cult. After I left, I studied about cults, in order to help me recover from the brainwashing and the superstitious fear. RFM was a great help to me!
The people who have answered your post are amazing human beings! I know some of their stories. I think they are heroes--as are you! Congratulations on resigning. Taking action is a very healthy thing to do. I hope your children aren't still trapped in the cult, but if they are, your example will help lead them out.
Resigning from the Mormon cult, with my children, has changed our life! My depression disappeared almost instantly! I was so tired of being used. My self-loathing is harder to get rid of, but comes and goes, only occasionally. I gained in self-confidence. I could concentrate on my career more. I had more free time to spend with my children. I had 10% more money to help with their tuition and quality of life. My children and I are so much happier! We were shunned when we left, but we have prevailed, in our Mormon-dominated neighborhood. My kids have loyal, life-long non-Mormon friends, they graduated from the U of Utah, got great jobs, married good people, and have homes in our same neighborhood. We have always been a close family unit--against those who wanted bad things to happen to us. Instead, the bad things happened to THEM.
It is possible to live a happy life surrounded by Mormons--we did it, and you can, too!
Oh, and keep your mind open for a while, on what you decide to believe in. My church experiences were so negative, that I have not joined another church, but I choose to believe in the teachings of Christ. Some ex-Mormons end up atheist, some enjoy exploring other religions. When I left, I knew only one fact: Mormonism is a hoax. But that doesn't mean everything else is a hoax, too. I agree with the other posters, that now you are FREE to decide for yourself!
You will be happier, I promise!