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Posted by: Dave the Atheist ( )
Date: August 10, 2019 11:34PM


Tevye writes ...

"The 2019 Women’s Lacrosse Under 19 World Championships just took place in Peterborough, Ontario, Canada.

The Israeli team played Kenya on August 6th in the second round and defeated them 13-4.

But something was amiss.

Each and every member of the Israeli team was...hurt….would be the most apt word...that their Kenyan opponents didn’t have adequate footgear.

Not one had cleats, which every member of every team uses as required equipment.

Required if you want to win against a team of equal caliber.

They slipped and slid and the Israelis knew that the two teams weren’t on equal footing (pun too easy not to use).

One thing also was different.

Throughout the game, a bond formed between many players with those on the other team.

There were smiles, hugs and back-pats over and again, in both directions, throughout the game. Genuine affection.

In the locker room afterwards, there was a somber tone mixed -in with the excitement.

And three of the young women spoke to their parents, and asked them if they could help with purchasing proper cleated shoes for each member of the Kenyan team.

Michael Duvdevani, whose daughter, Ella, is on the Israeli team just happens to own Complete Feet, a pedorthic clinic back home, and who knew about what not having proper footwear could do to these young women.

Who then spoke to the coaches, who then called tournament committee member Rose Powers...who along with Israeli players parents, paid for the shoes.

With Duvdevani coordinating everything, and making sure that each player had orthotic insoles.

They called a coach from the Kenyan team, who gave them each players name and shoe size, and a promise of secrecy.

And literally overnight, with the help of a local specialty store that stayed open most of the night to help fulfill this moment, they had the shoes.

The Kenyan coach had his team come to the Israeli- Belgium game that day in the guise of scoping out Belgium who they themselves would be playing the next day.

And after the game, each sister from the Israeli side had something to give, as an offering of love to their new friends.

Both Kenya and Israel are near the bottom of the 22 country roster, in terms of win/loss and hold an equal standing.

The Kenyan team attended all the Israeli games and the Israeli team attended all the Kenyan games.

And many lunched together afterwards.

This had nothing to do with anything other than what pure sportsmanship and sisterhood looks like.

Said one player, goalie Lielle Assayag, “This is what I’ll remember in twenty years. My friends. My old ones and my new ones.

This is the real reason why we are here.”

Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 08/11/2019 07:01AM by Dave the Atheist.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: August 10, 2019 11:54PM

This is an astoundingly beautiful story. Thank you, Dave.

There is a coach at my gym/community center. His real job is as a specialty coach for a couple of professional sports teams. The community gym is his hobby, both nurturing talented youth and giving very untalented kids the experience and respect that comes with team membership.

One day he and I were watching some youngsters learning a new skill. They were awkward, but gradually made some progress and were, as a group, very excited. I leaned over to my friend and said, "This isn't really about sports."

He leaned down and whispered, "It never has been."

You made my evening, Dave.

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Posted by: Tevai ( )
Date: August 11, 2019 12:28AM

This is a wonderful story, Dave!!

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Posted by: catnip ( )
Date: August 11, 2019 02:14AM

In a world that sometimes seems overwhelmingly ugly, something like this happens - and reaffirms that decency is alive and well.
That sort of thing just makes you feel good!!

Thanks, Dave, for sharing this one!

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Posted by: moremany ( )
Date: August 11, 2019 10:50AM

This is how life is supposed to play out. Fairly and Friendly.


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Posted by: cl2 ( )
Date: August 11, 2019 10:55AM

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Posted by: Eric K ( )
Date: August 11, 2019 12:41PM

How great! Thanks for that.

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Posted by: elderolddog ( )
Date: August 11, 2019 03:15PM

If you are just glancing at your computer screen, it's possible to suppose that someone is demanding that men be born with nipples.

This is why Paying Attention is so important!

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