Posted by:
elderolddog
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Date: October 28, 2019 07:27PM
Let's analyze this with some numbers:
Let's assume there's a million dollar pot at stake...or there was, because 35 years ago that's what his mom was planning to 'gift' to him via her will.
But then over the next 15 years, while you and he were still family, he borrowed $750,000 from her to cover the various $ sundry losses, as his money-making deals failed to pay off. So now he's looking at only getting $250,000 in inheritance money, and he's upset.
So he's hatched this theory that because you guys were a couple, $375,000 of what he borrowed was credited to you, and he wants you to pay that money back to him!
1. If the money from his mom was a loan, it is her place to demand repayment of your portion of the loan. If he's saying that she's collecting your $375,000 half by withholding $750,000 from the inheritance, and so you owe him that $375,000, the theory fails for a number of reasons:
a) where's the documentation that your MIL was 'lending' it to both of you?
b) there's a statute of limitations on suing to collect debts.
c) if it was known that this was coming from HIS future inheritance, it wasn't community property money.
2. From the facts given, MIL never attempted to recoup the money, thus making it NOT a loan. That leaves it being an advance on his inheritance, and basically speaking, it isn't community property, unless he takes steps to make it such. If he was using it to invest in or to pay off debts from his schemes, a strong argument exists that he never commingled those funds, unless you were a listed partner in any of those ventures.
Esteemed counsel totally nailed it with the commentary about the death of any claim that might have legitimately existed due to old age. I just wanted to play around with the facts.
But just in case, I'll be sure to tune in, on Saturday mornings, to Handel-on-the-Law, to listen for your ex calling in for free advice.