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Posted by: thedesertrat1 ( )
Date: November 03, 2019 10:54AM
problems

In human relations there are only three types of problems
1.my

2.your

3.our
First my definition of a problem.

A problem is when you find yourself in a situation that you wish to change and are unable to do so.
If you don't wish to change you do not have a problem with the issue!

That being said:
1. my problem is: I want to quit drinking, smoking, over eating, or what ever and I am unable to do do ( I have a problem)
2. Your problem is:
You want me to change and I won't.( you have a problem)
It is not that I do one of these things. It is that I won't do what you want!
3. Our problem is:(we have a problem)
Our problem comes not when I drink etc. nor when I won't do what you want :OUR problem is if we can't resolve the issue between us!
I find this to be continously true in human relations.



Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 11/03/2019 11:04AM by thedesertrat1.

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