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Posted by: messygoop ( )
Date: January 31, 2020 03:41PM

The first presidency issued a letter to warn parents that it is their responsibility to safeguard their children about the dangers of P-o-r-n. Just in time for the month of love, infatuation and lust.

The letter was sent to every member's email account three days ago and I saw an article on the not Mormon enough magazine's website (LDS living). There isn't an official press release on this. Maybe this will be the new way of making church policy.

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Posted by: Roy G Biv ( )
Date: January 31, 2020 03:56PM

Because valentine's are porn.

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Posted by: forestpal ( )
Date: February 01, 2020 03:51AM

I think you're right about this being how new church policies are released. I'll think of you, Messygoop, if the cult adds the porn question to the other temple recommend questions. We heard it from you, first!

Do you have a link to the article?

I thought you were referring to the "that time of year again" letter sent out by the Mormons at Christmastime. I got several that actually said, "It's that time of year...." in the opening line, and then it and went on to say, "For tithing settlement!" I thought it was going to be a Christmas letter from my church, but, not!

Yeah, Happy Valentine's Day.

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Posted by: Mother Who Knows ( )
Date: February 01, 2020 03:53AM

What's lucious-red, with two full, rounded lobes?

A valentine!

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Posted by: Dave the Atheist ( )
Date: February 01, 2020 09:21AM

I'm waiting for LD$ Inc. to define porn.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: February 01, 2020 01:12PM

Tell us about "define."

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Posted by: Dave the Atheist ( )
Date: February 03, 2020 01:03PM

To de-fine is to unfine something.

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Posted by: elderolddog ( )
Date: February 03, 2020 01:13PM

    Please refine this definition!

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Posted by: Warrior71783 ( )
Date: February 03, 2020 05:54PM

As long as its not redefined.

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Posted by: Razortooth ( )
Date: February 01, 2020 01:10PM

The only way I can think of to protect children from pornography is by aborting them prior to birth. We are surround by pornography. We are wired for pornography. Pornography may be viewed, read, heard, imagined and found in viewing and touching our own bodies. The church seeks to eliminate anything that stimulates independent thought or action.

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Posted by: Warrior71783 ( )
Date: February 03, 2020 05:56PM

Agreed. The only way to avoid porn is to never leave a blank room from birth till death.

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Posted by: CL2 ( )
Date: February 01, 2020 02:58PM

I found out a good friend of mine has a grandson who is addicted to porn and is 12 and has been molesting his younger sisters. What do you do then? He doesn't like the therapists the state has been sending the child to.

If there is SO MUCH FOCUS ON PORN like it seems the lds church does, where do you find a happy medium? When the church is telling the kids they can't even touch themselves? Just don't do anything at all is what they want.

It makes me sick. I think all this focus on porn is so detrimental to a kid's ability to deal with it all. You can't JUST SAY NO.

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Posted by: Houston Oilers ( )
Date: February 03, 2020 08:34PM

I do think us ex-Mormons underestimate the impact pornography has on not only young developing minds, but also adult minds, too. I don't care to censor pornography, but I don't find it all that compelling, either. I don't know, but I think we're too quick to jump on the porn bandwagon because we chafe at being controlled, which I understand. This is a tricky issue, for sure.

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Posted by: macaRomney ( )
Date: February 03, 2020 08:36PM

I have to wonder where the flip are his parents? That's the first question that needs answering, No 12 year old should be unsupervised. Some kids are just bad seeds, I've seen it. They need to tie his hands to his bed permanently!

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: February 04, 2020 04:02PM

WOW! Sounds like a true abuser to me.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: February 04, 2020 04:00PM

Porn doesn't create molesters. In that kid's case something else, something truly serious, is going on.

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Posted by: thedesertrat1 ( )
Date: February 03, 2020 12:57PM

And I always thought the four letter word was "o b e y "

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Posted by: GNPE ( )
Date: February 03, 2020 01:29PM

LDS / MORmON four-letter words:


ORAL


ANAL

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Posted by: Rubicon ( )
Date: February 03, 2020 02:29PM

Usually when people constantly talk about something being a problem it's usually that person who has the problem. The church is so obsessed with porn; maybe the church leaders have a porn problem. Also. Maybe Oaks and Bednar are closet homosexuals jealous of the gays who can openly be gay but they can't be.

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Posted by: Warrior71783 ( )
Date: February 03, 2020 05:41PM

I know my father is a closeted homosexual that had a major porn problem that got blamed on me of course. He was a total hypocrite. Anyways, life would have been better if he would have just came out of the closet and the entire family left the church when i was like 3 years old or something. I would have been way less confused.

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Posted by: Warrior71783 ( )
Date: February 03, 2020 05:44PM

I can actually see bednar as a gay male hiding within pretty easily. I've seen him in person. He kind of acts like my father.

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Posted by: Rubicon ( )
Date: February 04, 2020 01:46PM

Bednar is a strange duck.

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Posted by: Dave the Atheist ( )
Date: February 03, 2020 02:39PM

I thought the four letter word was work.

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: February 03, 2020 03:00PM

"Unfortunately, many children are exposed to pornography, which in some cases has led them to develop unrighteous patterns and habits."

And being neglected, physically abused, molested, and coerced into conforming to the whims of authority don't lead to developing unrighteous patterns and habits.

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Posted by: Warrior71783 ( )
Date: February 03, 2020 05:36PM

This.

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Posted by: Warrior71783 ( )
Date: February 03, 2020 05:34PM

I thought you were going to say the dangers of a C-U-L-T. That four letter word. I think porn is just a way for people to cope and escape a repressed cult life. I know it was for me.

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Posted by: Rubicon ( )
Date: February 03, 2020 06:27PM

I never confessed to the bishop I was masturbating because I was masturbating to his daughter. She was hot. Actually she's a grow woman now and she's still hot. I think I wasn't the only lad in the ward playing the upright organ and giving the ol' custard machine a good blow.

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Posted by: Warrior71783 ( )
Date: February 03, 2020 08:17PM

Haha niiiiice. There were definetly some hotties. If it wasn't in a cult setting i'd probably be a father by now haha.

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: February 04, 2020 01:38PM

Is there any other Mormon sin with a shortened nickname? I'm not talking about all the lists and lists of words and phrases for sex and self "abuse." I mean the church wouldn't say "gay" but same-sex. They won't say porn but pornography. They won't say cheating but adultery.

But their members say porn. It is like a familiar name for something ubiquitous. I could say the same about gay. Listening to my Mormon family talk about it though they try to say same-sex but it sounds so odd even to them. They say porn. It is funny how the "Mormon" word is like a swear word now but Mormons don't really have much in the way of influencing the world. No one is going to say same-sex pornography when talking about gay porn.

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Posted by: Rubicon ( )
Date: February 04, 2020 01:52PM

My hell. The church is obsessed with dicks. They blessed, washed and anointed my dick in the temple. You have to say strength in the loins to get through the veil.

All this dick worship and you can’t give the ol love gun a test blast every now and then?

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: February 04, 2020 02:06PM

Nope. It leads to sharing with other holders.

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: February 04, 2020 03:56PM

[|] Wrote:
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> https://www.sltrib.com/news/politics/2020/02/04/ut
> ah-lawmaker-wants/

Why not "Hair will grow on palms."

> https://www.sltrib.com/news/education/2020/02/02/b
> yu-wont-allow-nursing/

Really? So how is it okay in church and not here? Double standards much?

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