Posted by:
Deb
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Date: June 27, 2020 10:54AM
The stated aim of the Y being "perfection" is a recipe for disaster.
https://aims.byu.edu/High pressure to " be perfect" or aim for perfection only leads to high anxiety and depression, which students will try to mask with reports of various "achievements" to try to measure up and please their leaders.
The Y needs to take a moment to look at Catholic universities for example and notice you can teach Xtianity and be character-based without pushing something as unachievable and undesirable as perfection.
Pushing perfectionism is not just unachievable but undesireable. Do experts in parenting espouse raising "perfect" children? No, they espouse raising kids with a high degree of positivity mixed with some structured activities as well as lots of down time, and also a high degree of flexibility and most importantly, opportunity to explore a variety of ideas.
Likewise institutes of higher learning should not be about helping students to "become perfect" but about helping them to become open minded thinkers and truth seekers.