Posted by:
thegoodman
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Date: September 29, 2020 07:41AM
I have been keeping a scratch document during my research and occasionally I'll be struck by a feeling and go in there to wax philosophical on what I believe, trying to dig deep on where I am. This is stuff from that doc.
"You just left because you wanted to sin!
What sins would be worth giving up eternal life for? Coffee? Are you serious?
Abraham and Isaac. I can't do it. Even if it were me, God telling me to sacrifice my own son, the little boy that I had prayed so hard to have, that I loved so much...I couldn't do it. I know God gave him to me and He could take the boy anytime. I know I'd see the boy again in the afterlife.
But what if God hadn't stopped him? What if Abraham had sacrificed Isaac? He'd have to live with that. His son would be dead at his own hands, and the God that he worshipped with his whole might, mind, and strength, was the one that demanded this from him. Maybe I'm a bigger apostate than I realized. Maybe I'm just that selfish and ego driven. But a God that would demand that I fully commit in my heart to destroying the things I love for His glory is not a God I can follow. Who's here for who? I mean truly. Is worship for my benefit or His? I mean, with or without my devotion and faith, He's going to be a tyrant over me, raking me over heated coals, taking things away randomly, blessing me with good fortune without telling me why, etc. I might as well be standing up. He needs me to want to kneel and it is suspect to demand my covenant without also demanding my understanding.
I Am.
I think, therefore I am.
I don't feel uplifted or edified by a belief in a God. The Biblical God seems so simple and restrained to me. Like by defining our terms, we've severely limited who God is and what He is to me. A Father. A Creator. A goal to be reached. A jealous predator to be appeased. An egotistical judgement to be condemned upon me. I just keep reaching the edge and feeling disappointed. Yet Gnosticism feels like a waste of time. A God so limitless so as to be unknowable is one that I cannot approach or touch. So what does worship earn me? What does prayer to a being so vast and incomprehensible really do for me?
I'd rather not be bothered at all. I agree with certain frameworks of ethics given by Christianity but not all of them. I don't agree with punishment or deviant hedonism. I think I can be a good person without grinding myself down with guilt and shame. I think I can have freedom without embracing nihilistic secularism as if it were a new breed of Master. I can be medium and get what I want out of life.
I love the written word. I love colors. I love creatures with eyes and faces to empathize with. I love cheese and pasta and mushrooms. I think that is enough to define me.
In Mormon culture and in broader Christian culture, God gives you trials and tribulations to help you grow in your faith in Him. We are meant to endure in our suffering here, in meekness and the subversion of the self for a being who demands it of us, because He enjoys our piety just as much as he enjoys blessing us with happiness. I am tired of wondering every time I step in a hole or stub my toe, if I am being punished for something, especially when I have been breaking my back to do good and be good. I am tired of thinking that mere complaint or sadness or frustration over my situation will somehow earn me ten more Universe lashings because I didn't exemplify perfect faith and gratitude. I am tired of attributing every good thing that happens to me to some act of love and warmth from a deity that can't be bothered to truly connect with me. I have to search for love, I have to justify love in random coincidences, good fortune as providence, or things I earned through hard work I must hand over glory to someone else. Or else. God help me, literally, if I don't act grateful enough.
What would really change if I removed God entirely? There's no one to fearfully thank. No one to blame. Unless it's truly my fault, and then I can utilize the information for the future and overcome my own flaws. But if it isn't, then there's no one in charge that needs to be coddled and appeased. There's just me and random chance.
The funniest thing about deism, in particular Biblical deism, is the goal of making us choose to follow God and choose the right. Agency is number one. Yet believing in God takes away all of my agency because I immediately give everything over to an invisible deity. I give them credit for everything bad, everything good about me or that happens to me. I have limited choices on what I am allowed to do and it's a very general list given to everybody, so, it's not as if it takes me as an individual child of God into account. I am here to make choices and to be punished and guilted for those choices and God can't be bothered to tell me exactly what he wants with me directly. "Read the manual". "You MUST leave a message on the machine. I'll never call you back." "Follow my Son's example but I'll leave it up to interpretation."
I'm so tired. "