Posted by:
Breeze
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Date: November 29, 2020 02:07AM
I agree with Olderelder.
I am completely guilt-free, when I say "No" to Mormon former "friends". No to their boring, awkward parties, and activities. No, I won't be cooking an elaborate casserole from someone else's three-page recipe, for the Ward Christmas party, and I won't be driving all over the valley to search for a certain exotic ingredient, and I won't be soaking anything for two days in the fridge, and I won't be dishing up grub for 10 people when I'm only one person who is single without a date. (My children always refused to go, and I didn't want to have them unhappy and crying over a stupid party at Christmastime.
I used to get sick every time I taught Primary, and had to find a substitute for the next week. The week after that, I would return to teach the Primary class, and get sick again, and have to find a substitute again. This would continue all winter, until I had to quit teaching, because I had a real, salaried job that I could NOT keep missing because of illness. Now, all I have to say is "Covid", and I don't have to go into that filthy, smelly wardhouse building.
My own children left the cult before I did. My little Mormon nieces and nephews are very happy and relieved to not have to go to church on Sunday, and not be forced into lame "activities" with kids whom they barely know (yet they absolutely love school, sports, and music). Their parents are so relieved and relaxed on the weekends, that they told me that they probably won't be going back to church, when the pandemic is over.
I know things have been extreme--and freedom and knowledge should not have to be bought at the price of all those lives--but a full dose of brainwashing and lying and money-grabbing, and the resulting consequences, has made them take a second look at following fake people with self-appointed "authority." Where have Nelson and the other leaders been in these crises? Busy protecting their own self-interests and brands. Nelson is no different than the others.
My formerly Mormmon family has had a very small, mild taste of what it's like to be oppressed, not heard, disrespected as human beings. (A lot of us Mormon women have lived our entire life under the thumb of arrogant misogynist authority figures and bullies).
It is good to see the light go on behind those dull, vacant eyes. Is it the light of hope? God, I hope so.
When this nightmare is over, I, and most of my family, and a lot of my informed Mormon friends, will NOT be returning to the Mormon cult, not returning to the Old Normal, because it was not normal at all.