Posted by:
Tyson Dunn
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Date: June 18, 2021 11:32AM
A couple years back just before the pandemic, my husband and I moved to New England from the mid-Atlantic. We have a nice enough house and some good and some less good neighbors in an adequate suburban town.
The pandemic pretty much killed socializing, so we don't have any real social traction here. My husband has some work colleagues, but I work from home. We don't have children or pets.
We tried over the course of the last year to maintain contact with friends down south, but it's always us initiating that contact, never them. If we don't pick up the phone, email, or text them, they don't reach out and there's no reciprocation.
We each have one person - me from college, him from grad school - that we can count on to contact us, but otherwise, it's like we've been ghosted by everyone.
I know we've experienced this with church people, but it's true outside too. I have been trying to think of ways to deal with this, but after 15 months, I've run out of ideas and I think we're coming to accept that these people are gone permanently.
I'd rather not at my age have a caesura in my life, but it sure feels like that's what's happening.
Tyson