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caffiend
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Date: July 24, 2021 11:07AM
Your points, BkPC, are valid and have some utility, but "the times, they have a-change-d," apologies to Bob Dylan. I talked with my daughter at some length, who is both California and Massachusetts based. She says social media, especially dating and connection apps, is what "everybody" does, with etiquette and protocols old-fogey-yours-truly has only a slight knowledge of. The older means of joining organizations aren't invalid, but quite secondary.
Addressing Cauda: start doing some research on dating apps. Some are more oriented (disoriented?) towards sexual hookups (Grndr). My daughter has had success with Hinge, with most guys pursuing a 2nd date. One good thing about it is that she can post interests and leave things like education, professional achievement off her profile until later. She is accomplished--but thinks that may skew men's interest in her.
Cauda: Do read the article I linked to on my post of July 12, above. The Hinge app link:
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/hinge-dating-relationships/id595287172