Posted by:
Debdd
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Date: October 13, 2021 01:42PM
...for an LDS gal (or otherwise) to pressure a semi-active member boyfriend into marriage, by indicating that she will no longer continue to date unless he is fully temple-worthy and there's an engagement ring?
I know someone who did this and the boyfriend complied. I have to say to me, it seems manipulative. Am trying to recall what it was like to date and whether or not in or out of church I would ever have tried such a strategy. I think not likely, as that would feel like if the other party succumbed to the pressure, it might not last or be a sincere love.