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Posted by: dagny ( )
Date: April 23, 2022 10:46PM

Elections are stressful times. Thinking of you, Soft Machine.

This one impacts all of us.

Thoughts and prayers!

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: April 23, 2022 11:34PM

It will most certainly affect Ukraine.

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Posted by: anybody ( )
Date: April 23, 2022 11:56PM


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Posted by: Susan I/S ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 12:44AM

I have been meaning to ask Tom and Tyson to teach me some appropriate cuss words. I need some new ones for watching the news.

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Posted by: Nightingale ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 12:55AM

Sacrebleu!

We used to say that as JW missionaries in Quebec and fall over laughing. Couldn't swear in English, not allowed. If we said it in French it wasn't really swearing. We were young and easily amused.

We used merde too. Now I cut to the chase and say it in English.



Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 04/24/2022 01:00AM by Nightingale.

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Posted by: Tevai ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 01:42AM

Nightingale Wrote:
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> We used merde too. Now I cut to the chase and say
> it in English.

:D

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Posted by: catnip ( )
Date: April 25, 2022 01:02AM

For Nightingale: FYI - "Merde" goes back to the Latin "merda," (obviously related to the Spanish "mierda") and has been traced back to Roman times from what I've read. Perfectly honest word.

I love the idea of swearing in another language to avoid the "sin" of swearing in English! I had a friend in college whose Hungarian-born mother cursed like a pirate. I found this rather shocking, because in every other way, she was a genteel, cultured, upper-upper middle class lady. She just had a gutter mouth.

Once when I had spent the night at their house (back in college days) I said something teasing about how Mrs. R's vocabulary was richer than mine. She laughed. She said, "Swearing in English doesn't sound dirty to me. It's just noise. I would never say those things in Hungarian."

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Posted by: Soft Machine ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 03:06PM

But through private channels perhaps - some of them are rather 'fruity' for this board ;-)

My email hasna't changed ;-)

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Posted by: Nuggett ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 12:51AM

...and Keep Moroni away from your capital building..

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Posted by: Dave the Atheist ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 01:02AM

Le Pen is evil.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 01:22AM

Dave the Atheist Wrote:
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> Le Pen is evil. . .

. . . and yet familiar.

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Posted by: anybody ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 01:41AM


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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 01:57AM

Yes. His friends put a lot of money behind Le Pen’s party as well as Brexit and some other movements hostile to NATO.

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Posted by: Susan I/S ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 02:01AM

More "loans" that never get paid back.



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Posted by: Soft Machine ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 05:31AM

From my partner Anne (I can't vote, of course ;-). Having said that, there's nothing to worry about. Macron will win. The French Left usually do their duty and keep the extreme right out. It's not an ideal situation, but we won't have a Le Pen presidency...

Have a great Sunday everyone

Your correspondent in Paris ;-)

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Posted by: oxymormon ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 08:04AM

I said the same thing every day until November 8th, 2016.

I hope you're right.

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Posted by: dagny ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 12:12PM

I think my concern is that the bad guys will have some way of overriding the votes and declaring their candidate the winner, like they are doing here.

I don't know the vote counting procedures in France, but I hope it is stronger than our system of "alternate slates of electors" who have the power to override the people's votes.

I'm shocked to realize truly how many people are willing to give up democracy to support oligarchs and authoritarians by any means possible. Greed and power seem to dwarf fairness and compassion lately.

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Posted by: Soft Machine ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 01:03PM

Well, first of all, we have direct suffrage, so there are no electoral college problems. The actual counting is done in public by hand in each polling station by local voters who are asked if they would like to count when they vote during the day. I have counted for European and municipal elections. Representatives of all the parties can check, but the major guarantee is the openness of the procedure.

In an hour's time, we'll have the first estimations. From what I understand, participation is on course for being the highest in 40 years, which is probably a good sign.

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Posted by: dagny ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 01:29PM

Thanks for that info.

I'm hopeful.

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Posted by: Kentish ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 08:43AM

So many elections. So little choice.

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Posted by: Soft Machine ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 01:06PM

In the end, yes, but the two-round system has the advantage of allowing much broader debate in the first round than Anglo-Saxon 2-party systems which try to squeeze the whole spectrum of opinions into just 2 choices, while everybody else gets shouted down.

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Posted by: Kentish ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 02:59PM

My cynicism is at the dearth of good candidates seemingly worldwide. Whatever happened to real leaders?

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Posted by: Soft Machine ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 03:07PM


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Posted by: Soft Machine ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 03:17PM


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Posted by: Nightingale ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 03:22PM

"When speaking about his friend of many years, T.E Lawrence (Lawrence of Arabia) and his tragic death, Winston Churchill made this remark, “ I deem him one of the greatest beings of our time, we shall never see his like again.”

I thought Churchill had said "we shall never see *their* like again" about military members after WWII. I wonder where I got that idea?

Of course, Shakespeare got there first:

Hamlet, re his father: “He was a man, take him for all in all,
I shall not look upon his like again.”

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 03:23PM

Agreed.

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Posted by: Nightingale ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 02:10PM


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Posted by: Dave the Atheist ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 02:32PM

There might be hope for France after all.

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Posted by: dagny ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 02:32PM

I don't trust exit polls yet, but I'm cautiously relieved.

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Posted by: dagny ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 02:44PM

:-) Thanks.

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Posted by: Nightingale ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 03:06PM

I'm loving all the attention on the election in France. Plenty of shots of the Eiffel Tower. Iconic.

It's a thrill to know I went to the top, after overcoming my habitual overwhelming acrophobia.

Following that, how you gonna keep 'em down on the farm, eh? :)

Now I'm having fun figuring out the one defining image of various countries in the world (I'm easily amused!), like the Eiffel Tower is for France.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 03:25PM

With all due respect to Anita Bryant, how about for the USA the Florida Orange?

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Posted by: Soft Machine ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 03:20PM

The 40 is nasty, but the 60 is worth comparing with his first round score - double, so half of his vote is from non-supporters who nevertheless prefer what I consider the right choice. Not a nice choice, but the right choice.

As to the 40 voting for the extreme right: don't forget that they have been strong historically in France since the 19th century, reaching their apogee (naturally) during the 30s and when they betrayed their compatriots in the shadow of the Nazis during the Occupation. They've never gone away, unfortunately - and apparently quite a few "patriots" have no sense of smell ;-)

Much love to you all.

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Posted by: Soft Machine ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 03:25PM

...for US readers: aren't we lucky in France that our system lets the majority vote win... :-D

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 03:28PM

So does the UK system.












*As a Briton, I trust the irony of that is not lost on you!

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Posted by: Soft Machine ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 03:41PM


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Posted by: CrispingPin ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 03:48PM

The candidate that gets the majority of the votes wins? What a strange concept.

/s

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Posted by: Nightingale ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 03:25PM

Soft Machine Wrote:
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> As to the 40 voting for the extreme right: don't
> forget that they have been strong historically in
> France since the 19th century, reaching their
> apogee (naturally) during the 30s and when they
> betrayed their compatriots in the shadow of the
> Nazis during the Occupation.

Scary, Tom. But for now, yay for 60.

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Posted by: Soft Machine ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 03:37PM

Nightingale, when I was 16 (1976) and in boarding school in Cranleigh, Surrey, we had a choice on Wednesday afternoons between "Army Corps" and Social Service, which basically meant helping out lone old ladies living in the village (yes, I know, it's all so very British, but it's true).

I and 2 friends were lucky to be assigned to a lovely old lady called Babs Brinkley who was in her 80s - and a Buddhist. She had travelled widely, but in the 1920s, she worked at a foreign language bookshop in London and met all the authors of the time, some she liked and became close to (George Bernard Shaw), some she hated (DH AND Frieda Lawrence). She also said that Virginia Woolf was a lesbian, which at the time was not widely known. But her favourite friends was... T.E.Lawrence (who by then was T.E. Shaw).

So now you have a direct link with both protagonists of your story - because Winston Churchill's great-nephew was "my" bassist for 11 years and remains a friend.

:-D



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Posted by: Nightingale ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 04:03PM

Wow, Tom. The world, indeed, is small.

In some ways.

I love coincidences.

Ironically, they make it seem like there's actually a plan.

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Posted by: dagny ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 08:37PM

Soft Machine Wrote:
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> As to the 40 voting for the extreme right: don't
> forget that they have been strong historically in
> France since the 19th century,...They've never gone
> away, unfortunately - and apparently quite a few
> "patriots" have no sense of smell ;-)


Robert Reich on Twitter managed to spoil the moment for me:

"The fact that 40 percent of voters in a major European democracy voted for a far-right presidential candidate, despite the disastrous lessons of Donald Trump and Vladimir Putin's violent authoritarianism, should worry everyone who cares about peace and prosperity."

I'll take 60%, but sheesh.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 09:05PM

Reich is right.

A 51-49 balance is stable if both parties share a commitment to their country's constitution. But if one party does not, the situation is inherently unstable.

In the summer of 1932 the Nazi Party won 37% of the German national vote, and that proportion actually fell before he gained power in January 1933. The point is that if you have a significant plurality of the vote, unforeseen events can tip the balance in your favor. And if you don't respect the rules of the game, you can then knock over the chessboard.

Short of the Nazi extreme, the fact that somewhere around 40% of the French and American electorates reject constitutionalism and want to overturn electoral systems is something that should cause traditional republicans (small "s") grave concern. It isn't the party affiliation per se that matters: it is the commitment, or lack of commitment, to established political procedures.

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Posted by: Nightingale ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 09:16PM

dagny Wrote:
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> Soft Machine Wrote:
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> "The fact that 40 percent of voters in a major
> European democracy voted for a far-right
> presidential candidate, despite the disastrous
> lessons of Donald Trump and Vladimir Putin's
> violent authoritarianism, should worry everyone
> who cares about peace and prosperity."

Yeah, that's what I said scary about above.

Indeed it is. Victory for now is great but there's always the next election. What are the extremists thinking you have to wonder. By definition, extremism is undesirable (understatement). Too bad there are times and places in history where too many people have to learn that the hard way. And others have to suffer for it.



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Posted by: Brother Of Jerry ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 04:27PM

I’ve been out and about this morning, so first time seeing your posts, though I had heard the news on the radio. You remember radio…?

Much relief felt. It was exactly what I expected, but in today’s world, you never know. A Le Pen presidency would have been such a demoralizing blow in a world that is already as FUBAR as we can tolerate. At least this time we get to take a few deep breaths and relax a bit.

::deep sigh::

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Posted by: Nightingale ( )
Date: April 24, 2022 05:03PM

Brother Of Jerry Wrote:
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> a demoralizing blow in a world that is already as FUBAR as we can tolerate.

My mom would call this tempting fate. :/


> At least this time we get to take a few
> deep breaths and relax a bit.

Here's hoping.

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Posted by: Kathleen ( )
Date: April 25, 2022 02:07AM

Phew! Thank G-d.

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Posted by: Happy_Heretic ( )
Date: April 27, 2022 11:24AM

I had the same reaction. LePen is a scary little right-wing nut.


HH =)

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