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Date: February 27, 2023 05:25AM
I was invited to a baptism by a family who moved wards after I became inactive, but before I resigned. They're good people..just super over the top with church. My husband says he'll go with me. I feel free supporting people on their paths. I think I'm upset because I know this family probably wouldnt do the same for me.
I'm exhausted of being the better friend...sometimes I feel like the only friend in certain friendships..giving time, effort, care, and concern too often not received in return. My willingness to attend this event hosted by people who pretty much avoided me when I backed away from the church shows me I'm doing it again. I really don't know what my problem is but it needs to stop.
Maybe this is less about the church and more about how my desire to join was only about a desire to be accepted and celebrated for who I am.
I get so sucked into disappointment in myself merely pondering this that I have to be reminded I'm more than the ways I've disappointed myself.
Looking for answers in the wrong places is what someone does when they lack trust in themselves, and I've been working on this.
Looking for acceptance is never the way it's truly found. It needs to be natural. I know this yet here I am trying to get others to like me.
I suppose awareness is the first step.