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Date: March 16, 2023 10:52AM
Make it make sense.
I know LDS women who are treated like princesses by their husbands. This is not about
WHAT is with the large subset of LDS women who feel guilty doing nice things for themselves, taking time for themselves, etc. They make excuses for people who mistreat them and even fawn over them. I've never seen this in such an extreme as I have when I was in the church-women feeling guilty for being anything but a humble servant to anything and anyone, and borderline shaming anyone who isn't on board with that mindset.
On the flip side, I've never seen so many men with inflated self-importance. Don't get me wrong the men where very kind to me, but they had an air of self satisfaction. I grew up with and also have practiced traditional gender roles in marriage, and never saw such extremes, so it can't be blamed on that. No it's something more than that, something I maybe missed not having been BIC.