* they seem to have no conscience about the way that they pick & choose who will be disciplined for harming others.
As I have written before (sorry if you've read this before!)
They knowingly ratified, condoned, excused & approved an hate & greed motivated, deceitful divorce done by my (now) former wife (ex sounds mean to me).
* Little or no focus on Honesty or Kindness, even the commandments of Forgiving & Repentance (sincere repentance requires restoration-return of things wrongfully taken, per both Bible & LDS scriptures); Basic, Core, Christ-like examples-teachings are plainly AWOL with ChurchCo.
I surmise that 'some' of them might have regrets the way that the gospel (tm) is used as a Wedge against another (spouse & family included). but Really? For a while I thought that Uchtdorf might somewhat 'get it' and work to turn things around, but Nooooooooooooooooooooooooo.
Maybe so, but many of the exmos here also obey "experts" without question.
My feeling is that it's all emotional manipulation. Fawning members are a form of narcissistic supply for those who need it. I would find it kind of creepy. Those who let themselves be manipulated are part of the problem, but it's not their fault for having blinders put on them.
bradley Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Maybe so, but many of the exmos here also obey > "experts" without question. > > My feeling is that it's all emotional > manipulation. Fawning members are a form of > narcissistic supply for those who need it. I would > find it kind of creepy. Those who let themselves > be manipulated are part of the problem, but it's > not their fault for having blinders put on them. > > It's a game of feed my sheep - to the wolves.
Humans are not rational beings. They build their belief systems to support their emotional lives. So technically, most of us left because we were offended. Maybe offended at the lying and manipulation, but still offended.
It's not that we are different from Mormons, it's just that we were fortunate enough to have our Mormon worlds ripped apart.